Automatically translated.View original post

The scariest thing is not rejection.

Once, Brian Tracy was 24.

He doesn't have a degree.

No special skills.

And there's no good job to choose from.

The only thing he can find

Is the direct sales profession

First day of work

He must have walked to knock on the stranger's door.

But he didn't dare.

He walked around many times.

The heart is pounding.

Moist palm

There is only the idea that

"What if he doesn't care?"

"What if he refuses?"

"What if he's annoyed?"

Finally, he gathered courage.

And then knock on the first door.

An elderly woman walked out.

She didn't buy anything.

But she smiled.

Said thank you for stopping by.

And wish him luck.

It was then.

Brian found something.

The scariest thing.

Not to be rejected.

But the fear of rejection.

After that day,

He changed the way he thought.

Instead of trying to avoid the word "no,"

He started looking for it.

Every morning.

He was waiting for the first denial of the day.

Because he knows that.

Every time I hear the word "no,"

He's getting stronger.

Every time it's rejected,

He's approaching the word "yes."

One more step.

Most people

Let the fear of rejection

Stop them from not starting yet.

But the truth is,

The word "no"

Never hurt your future.

There is only fear of the word "no."

Only can.

Because many times in life

What you want most

Only next to being rejected a few times.

.

Like this content, click ♥️, click follow 🙂

.

# Develop yourself # Psychology # Neuropsychology # Thought power # Manifest# Mindset # Attraction # Encouragement # Good ideas

6/30 Edited to

... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว ผมเคยกลัวการถูกปฏิเสธมากจนไม่กล้าที่จะเริ่มทำสิ่งใหม่ๆ เช่น การสมัครงานหรือชวนคนรู้จักเข้าร่วมกิจกรรมบางอย่าง แต่เมื่อผมหยุดคิดเรื่อง "การถูกปฏิเสธ" เป็นเรื่องแย่ กลับมองว่ามันคือโอกาสในการเรียนรู้และเติบโตชีวิตและงานเปลี่ยนไปอย่างมาก ประเด็นที่ไบรอัน เทรซี่กล่าวไว้ว่า ทุกครั้งที่ได้ยินคำว่า "ไม่" คือการก้าวไปสู่คำว่า "ใช่" นั้นจริงมาก เพราะการถูกปฏิเสธไม่ได้หมายความว่าเราล้มเหลว แต่เป็นการเปิดโอกาสให้เราปรับปรุง เรียนรู้ หรือเข้าหาคนหรือสถานการณ์ที่เหมาะสมกว่า นอกจากนี้ การฝึกตัวเองให้รับมือกับความกลัวนี้ยังช่วยเพิ่มความแข็งแกร่งทางจิตใจ เมื่อเราฝึกพูดคุยหรือทำสิ่งที่กลัวบ่อยๆ เราจะเริ่มชินและเปิดโอกาสให้ตัวเองได้พบเจอโอกาสดีๆ ที่ซ่อนไว้ในคำปฏิเสธหลายครั้ง ผมแนะนำว่าเวลาคุณมีไอเดียหรือต้องทำอะไรใหม่ๆ ให้เริ่มจากการตั้งเป้าหมายเล็กๆ อย่ากลัวที่จะเคาะประตูบานแรกและรับคำปฏิเสธให้เป็นเรื่องธรรมดา เพราะท้ายที่สุดชีวิตเรามักได้สิ่งที่ต้องการ ใกล้กับคำว่า "ไม่" เพียงไม่กี่ก้าวเท่านั้น ในยุคปัจจุบันที่การแข่งขันสูงและข้อมูลข่าวสารมากมาย ความกลัวปฏิเสธอาจเป็นอุปสรรคที่ใหญ่ที่สุดที่ขวางทางความสำเร็จของเรา ดังนั้นอย่าปล่อยให้คำว่า "ไม่" กลายเป็นผนัง ก้าวข้ามมันด้วยความคิดเชิงบวกและฝึกฝนตัวเอง รับรองว่าคุณจะเข้มแข็งและประสบความสำเร็จได้อย่างที่ใจหวัง

Related posts

God’s delay is not rejection
God’s delay is not rejection. 🤍 Read that again. Because sometimes when the answer doesn’t come as quickly as we hoped, it’s easy to believe God has forgotten us. We start wondering if we heard Him wrong. We question His promises. We compare our timeline to everyone else’s. And be
Tiana.Michele.94

Tiana.Michele.94

56 likes

Rejection is protection ✨🥰
Afrocentrick

Afrocentrick

233 likes

I Almost Mistook God's Preparation for Rejection
There was a season when I couldn't understand why so many doors kept closing. I prayed, waited, and hoped things would work out the way I wanted, but instead, I faced disappointment after disappointment. At the time, it felt like God was saying "no" to every prayer I prayed. I quest
Dinnetta | Beautifully Blessed

Dinnetta | Beautifully Blessed

86 likes

Rejection is just REDIRECTION 🍀
Rejection is a part of life, it even happened to Jesus! “If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.” ‭‭John‬ ‭15‬:‭18‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ #bible #biblejournaling #biblestudy #bibleverse #bibletips
cheyenne 🦋

cheyenne 🦋

318 likes

Im here to remind you not every closed door is rejection
Sometimes a closed door is not punishment.It’s protection. Not every unanswered text, lost relationship, missed opportunity, or painful ending is rejection. Some things fall apart because they were never meant to carry you into the next version of your life. I’m here to remind you…what’s mean
Pretty Unshaken

Pretty Unshaken

2 likes

If Rejection Scares You, Read This
The difference between success and failure? How many “no’s” you can survive. Most people tap out too early. Don’t be most people. Follow for real growth, no fluff. #successjourney #successreads #lemon8bookclub #read
Read With Bintou 🤭

Read With Bintou 🤭

24 likes

rejection sucks BUT make the most of it w/ this ➡️
**template included** being rejected from a job you were excited about is the worst—and we've all been through it, so remember to give yourself some grace ❤️ if you want to keep the relationship open, try using this email template to follow up post-rejection... #lemon8partner #care
Alex | Career & Confidence

Alex | Career & Confidence

22 likes

A notebook page displays handwritten notes on the effects of greenhouse gases, climate change, and environmental issues like carbon dioxide, methane, and acid rain. It includes diagrams and details on sources, adverse effects, and solutions.
Rejection isn’t failure. It’s just data
Comecomecomeon

Comecomecomeon

190 likes

A handwritten note titled 'Grace in Rejection' on lined paper, outlining how to find grace in rejection. It lists Bible verses, references Joseph's story, and explains that rejection offers redirection and protection, encouraging forgiveness, understanding, and embracing God's love.
✨ Grace in Rejection ✨
Finding grace in rejection isn’t always easy. When I think back to my sonography program journey, I remember how hard it was to feel like I “failed” at something I wanted so badly. At the time, it stung. I questioned myself, wondered if I wasn’t good enough, and even carried a little bitterness in
Lindsey Marie

Lindsey Marie

169 likes

Rejection is redirection ✨🫶🥰
Don’t let the NO defeat you!!! Visalia #embraceyourworth💋 #summerbod #embracevulnerability #unfiltered #lemon8bookclub
Katherine McMahon

Katherine McMahon

2 likes

Tips for rejection 🤍
Don’t worry too much about it because rejection is always redirection! ✨ #rejection #mentalhealthtoolkit #selfcarejourney
Alnitak

Alnitak

612 likes

Rejection is Sometimes better than YES
Rejection is always a window of opportunity not a final destination. #DailyQuotes #QuoteOfTheDay #Inspiration #Motivation #wisdommonday #WordsOfWisdom #DailyInspiration #PositiveVibes #InspirationalQuotes #ThoughtOfTheDay .
JarodFitnesslifestyle

JarodFitnesslifestyle

10 likes

Sometimes the closed door is protection, not rejection.
The last few months have taught me something I didn’t expect. I’ve prayed for opportunities that didn’t happen. Applied for rooms I didn’t get into. Waited for emails that never came. But in the middle of all of that, I still found myself meeting incredible women, growing my brand, being fe
The Ms. Saddler

The Ms. Saddler

4 likes

Boundaries Are Not Rejection
Hey girl, you are allowed to protect your peace without feeling guilty about it. Not everyone deserves unlimited access to your energy, your emotions, your time, or your softness. Some people only respected you when you overextended yourself. When you stayed available. When you abandoned your ow
bloomingmoore

bloomingmoore

12 likes

Accept rejection
#dontbeg #moveon #neverchase #chooseyourself
I am that TX girl

I am that TX girl

610 likes

When Rejection Is Actually Redirection
A quiet reminder from lived experience: alignment feels lighter when you stop running and start trusting. Not everything that closes is a loss. Some doors are protecting your peace and rerouting your path. #alignment #stopchasingstartattracting #rejectionisredirection #soulistichealing
SoulisticHealingHouse

SoulisticHealingHouse

19 likes

Dealing with Rejection
Rejection is normal especially in academia but it doesn’t make it easy to deal with. I often get asked how I deal with it and it really depends but taking these 3 steps usually help. I try to separate myself from it. It doesn’t feel as big when I am not rummaging on it! I Also try to shift my pers
jasmine

jasmine

16 likes

DELIVERANCE PRAYER FROM THE SPIRIT OF REJECTION...
#godlovesyou #AskLemon8 #Lemon8Diary #rejection #love
Adoratrice

Adoratrice

41 likes

A serene image features a wooden pathway stretching through a sunlit forest, flanked by tall trees and lush greenery. Overlaying the scene is an inspirational quote: "Remember rejection is not a sign of your worth, but an invitation to rediscover and reinvent your worth."
Rejection is Sometimes better than YES
Rejection is always a window of opportunity not a final destination. #DailyQuotes #QuoteOfTheDay #Inspiration #Motivation #wisdommonday #WordsOfWisdom #DailyInspiration #PositiveVibes #InspirationalQuotes #ThoughtOfTheDay .
JarodFitnesslifestyle

JarodFitnesslifestyle

13 likes

A young woman sits at a desk with a laptop, with text overlay "RESUME WRITING TIPS is your resumé being auto-rejected? Let's chat." The image introduces resume advice to avoid auto-rejection.
A bouquet of pink and white flowers with text overlay "Keep your resumé 1-2 pages max. Hiring managers only spend a few seconds reviewing each resume. 1". This is the first resume writing tip.
Two cupcakes in a box with text overlay "Arial or Times New Roman in size 10-12 only. Keep it standard and simple! 2". This is the second resume writing tip.
4 rips to avoid resumé auto-rejection 📝
If you’re more of a creative person, it might be hard to keep your resumé to the standard, basic, black and white format. How can my resumé stand out if it looks the same as everyone else’s?! Until... I learned about ATS. Applicant Tracking System is a software used to manage and screen resumés.
Jane 🦧

Jane 🦧

27 likes

A person stands on a subway platform as a train passes, with the title 'DEALING WITH REJECTION HOW TO MOVE ON & LET GO' overlayed. The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom.
A young woman with a thoughtful expression is shown with text explaining that 'REJECTION IS PAINFUL' and triggers feelings of inadequacy, leading into tips on how to deal with it.
Against a serene water background, four key tips for dealing with rejection are listed: acknowledge feelings, reframe perspective, learn from it, and stay persistent and resilient.
💔 how to deal with rejection 💔
Lemon8 Wellness is launching an upcoming campaign on #GrowthMindset tips! Share your best habits, tips, and personal stories for a chance to win an Apple Macbook, Fire TV, and Sony Headphones! Campaign timeframe: 5/21 - 6/21 Join me in sharing mental health tips and stories, wellness routines,
Sarah Jolie 🌸

Sarah Jolie 🌸

94 likes

rejection doesn't define you 🫶🏽
i had a problem saying no to people AND i also had a problem with people telling me no. i would internalize things, believe that that particular person didn’t like me and ultimately engaged in negative thoughts about myself.. when in honesty, those thoughts i was thinking they had, were just
R Y E S I A

R Y E S I A

63 likes

Rejection is Realignment
Sometimes what feels like a breakdown is just the setup for everything you've been praying for. If you're in a season that makes no sense, please don't give up. The path you're on might just lead to the best version of you. Let this be your reminder, you're not being buried, you
Soulphoria

Soulphoria

78 likes

A person holds a laptop displaying a query tracker dashboard showing 18 queries sent, 18 negative replies, and 0 positive replies, while giving a thumbs-up gesture. A Lemon8 watermark is visible.
Rejection Letters
I have no clue what this app is but here are my 18 rejected query letters. They couldn’t handle my neutron style! #author #rejection
Silvestri

Silvestri

58 likes

Rejection is God’s protection ❤️‍🩹🥺
There were days I doubted everything about myself. Rejection after rejection. Plans not working. Feeling like somehow things “always” happened to me. It’s easy to spiral there. To convince yourself you’re behind. That everyone else figured it out and you’re the exception. But lately, I
Liz Barbie✨| digital marketing

Liz Barbie✨| digital marketing

314 likes

A screenshot of a job rejection email on a dark background, showing a placeholder `{{rejection_message}}` followed by an instruction for generating a generic, polite rejection message. A white overlay asks, 'Is this what job rejection emails have become?'
Is this what job rejection emails have become?
I just got a rejection email that looked more like a bot instruction than an actual message. It literally included text like: ""Write a warm but generic rejection email that sounds polite yet firm. Do not mention specific reasons for rejection. Make the candidate feel like they were strong
Leigh Smith

Leigh Smith

798 likes

DEALING WITH REJECTION DURING THE JOB SEARCH 💻😩
I want to start off by saying, if you're struggling in your job hunt -- I 10000% RELATE. A lot of people don't get that the job market is suffering and it has NOTHING to do with your abilities or experience. If you're thinking if pivoting or giving up hope, just know that the job market
Jane 🦧

Jane 🦧

14 likes

Rejection is protection ❤️
#rejection #winner #divinefeminineenergy #heavenly #kyrie
kyriecourter

kyriecourter

17 likes

Sis, if he doesn’t want you, that’s not rejection
#selfcare #selfcareroutine #GIRL #womeninspirationquotes #soft
TayTay24

TayTay24

144 likes

Healing from Rejection
“I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.” ~Hebrews 13:5, KJV Lord, I surrender the wounds of rejection into Your hands. I cast down every lie that tells me I am unloved, or unworthy! Fill me with Your love and remind me that I am chosen and valued. I am deeply seen by You. I reject rejection
Sis, Be Encouraged

Sis, Be Encouraged

27 likes

Rejection in any circumstances is protection✨
#protection #rejection #god #life #love
Ms.Makia🦋

Ms.Makia🦋

32 likes

Rejection doesn’t determine Worth 💕
Link in bio 💕 #christiantiktok #christianfyp #letgoletgod #rejectionisredirection #christianbook
GodfidentlyHer

GodfidentlyHer

9 likes

Rejection is not your portion!
Sis, I am lifting you up. You will not be rejected. God loves you! #believer #faithingod #rejection #followerofchrist #trustgod
Sis, Be Encouraged

Sis, Be Encouraged

5 likes

Their rejection is your new obsession
They told me my writing made them feel like they were in a movie. um...okay! so thats bad?? I’m just going to leave the complete duet right here for the readers who get it. 😉💀 Book 1 and Book 2 are officially live! ​ #possessivehero #rejection #forbiddenromance #darkromance
DreDaze💥

DreDaze💥

1 like

📚 Rejection Trope Book Recs
📚 All Tied Up by Kati McRae 📚 Read now on Amazon Kindle Unlimited! Evan Simmons used to be my best friend. But when I confessed my feelings to him, he rejected me. I haven’t seen or spoken to him in five years… that is, until now. I came to Lake Arrowhead to be the maid of hono
Quixotic Book Boyfriends

Quixotic Book Boyfriends

63 likes

REJECTION❗️❌❗️
✝️I am learning that rejection is a necessary step in the process with God. Rejection from friends, family, church leaders, significant others, etc are hard realities to face but it is much needed on your journey with God. In the season that you’re feeling rejection God is teaching you to depend on
Sips of Sweet T

Sips of Sweet T

27 likes

Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, who can relate?
I just had an episode of RSD, where I not only left my office, but sat in the car and zoned out. It’s been 30 minutes. Long story short, I work in a Specific group and when we don’t do things in that group, we are sent to a Main group to help them out. Today out of the Specific group, it’s just
Alexis Rand

Alexis Rand

2 likes

A person looks out a window, with sheer curtains framing the scene. Overlay text asks: "ADHD & Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) What is it and what can you do about it?" The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom.
🫶Feelings of rejection are HARD with ADHD!
Find out what RSD is and how you can manage it! #sanfrancisco #adhd #adhdinwomen #adhdsymptoms #adhdawareness
Amy

Amy

40 likes

Rejection doesn’t just wound you
Rejection doesn’t just wound you it rewires you. And if you don’t confront it, you’ll start protecting the very prison that keeps you bound. #rejection #healingquotes #christiancontent #jesussaves #jesuslovesyou
LapashaW

LapashaW

16 likes

And how to handle Rejection
#rejection #BetterMe #copingwithanxiety #redirection #life #forgive #LoveYourself
ShireenTX🇺🇸

ShireenTX🇺🇸

94 likes

When Rejection Feels Personal
That rejection wasn’t personal—it was protection. 🤍 I know it hurt, but what if God was redirecting you to something better? He sees what you don’t. That opportunity, that relationship—if it left, it wasn’t meant to go where He’s taking you. Rejection isn’t a no—it’s a not this, not them, not
Kierra | Faith Coach 🌱

Kierra | Faith Coach 🌱

7 likes

An illustration depicting social rejection as a broken road with two figures separated by a heart-shaped chasm of crumbling debris, under a cloudy sky. The text states, "You may feel social rejection as physical pain."
Text detailing an fMRI study where recalling a breakup and seeing an ex's photo activated brain regions associated with physical pain. It includes the PMID: 21444827.
Text outlining key takeaways: emotional pain recruits sensory pain regions, the brain reacts to rejection biologically, and feeling hurt or heartbroken is more literal than metaphorical.
Social rejection may feel like physical pain
What if “it hurts” is more literal than we think? A fMRI study asked people who had recently gone through an unwanted breakup to look at a photograph of their ex, and reflect on the rejection, also underwent a classic physical-pain test (mild heat on the forearm). The researchers found that loo
theclairamemag

theclairamemag

2 likes

Old time rejection
#fypシ #funny #lol
Willard&wanda

Willard&wanda

18 likes

A person, @CHRI.DENIGHT, kneels within a neon green frame, with text overlay "REJECTION SENSITIVITY THE STIGMA, THE REALITY & THE MIND SHIFT FOR EVERY AUDHD SOUL LEARNING TO LIVE UNFORCED." The image introduces the topic of rejection sensitivity for AuDHD individuals.
A black background with green text titled "THE STIGMA / COMMON MISCONCEPTION." It lists common phrases like "You're too emotional" and explains that for AuDHD souls, rejection is a full-body experience, reliving past pain, not overreacting.
A black background with green text titled "THE REALITY (WHAT IT ACTUALLY IS)." It describes Rejection Sensitivity as a nervous system wound, not weakness, stemming from past conditional love, causing the brain to stay alert to disconnection and making imagined rejection feel real.
Rejection sensitivity (AuDHD Edition)
RSD isn’t a flaw — it’s a signal that safety has been threatened. And that signal can be softened, not shamed. Healing begins when we stop fighting the feeling and start holding it. When you pause before reacting, place a hand on your heart, and remind yourself: “I’m safe now. I don’t need to e
𝑪𝒉𝒓𝒊 𝑫𝒆𝑵𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕

𝑪𝒉𝒓𝒊 𝑫𝒆𝑵𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕

4 likes

See more