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If you want to be more independent and happy with yourself,

If you want to be free,

And happier with yourself.

Let's take these four steps and apply them. 👇

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1. Stop criticizing yourself. 🙅‍♂️

From today onwards, "Don't say negative words.

Or what you don't want to be true about yourself. "

The most powerful words are what we say to ourselves repeatedly.

Let's change to say these words often.

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"I like myself!" "I can do it!"

And "I'm in charge!"

Because we can't feel guilty.

Go along with loving yourself.

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2. Stop criticizing others. 🤫

Remove undermining words from the dictionary of life and instead practice looking for advantages in others.

When do we say good things to people?

Unless they feel good, then.

It also reflects back to make us feel good.

And more proud of yourself, too.

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3. Don't make anyone feel guilty. 💖

The most precious gift we will give

Family, lover or friend is

"Unconditional love and acceptance."

Don't try to make people feel guilty.

Of what he did or didn't do.

If not, at least.

Just choose to be "motionless."

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4. Refuse to be controlled by guilt. 🛡️

If you meet someone trying to make you feel guilty,

To make you indulge him.

Try a "game spell" like this.

Ask straight back.

"You're not trying to make me feel guilty, are you?"

Then listen

If he refuses - > The game's over.

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If he answers "yes" - > reply motionlessly that

"It won't work."

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The ultimate goal in life is

Removing negative emotions

The more you "like yourself"

You will be "responsible for your life."

Only so much.

And both of these positive emotions.

That will help you grow strong.

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