Real Thoughts
Hey my beautiful souls……
Just want to vent a little ! I am so stuck in my thoughts about life . Things are constantly changing in today’s world that I am not fast enough to keep and I am sure many of you are .
Currently I am stuck in between wanting to be in a relationship or being alone. I would love to have a partner but I only trust me with my heart. I know if I have a partner I will be in a must better place and not do everything on my own but I am so comfortable at being alone that it’s exhausting. I do want to be alone but then I want to be with someone. I am 40yrs old single woman with no children and working 3 jobs. I want to have my own family but I been alone for so long that it feels normal to be alone!
My thoughts are just going back and forth about this part of my life. And when I talk about it people they don’t seem to understand me but then again I don’t expect them too.
Well That ’s all , have a great day whenever you see this post!
Love Trish ❤️
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