Can Polyamory Be Exclusive?

Think polyamory means sharing everything? Not true! 💡 You can be open to multiple loves and still keep some moments, spaces, or rituals just for you and your partner. It’s all about choice, intimacy, and intentional boundaries. ❤️

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