Don’t give your 🐱 up so easily

The body of a woman is so beautifully sacred. We have the ability to create life for goodness sakes!! Trusting someone with it is to give them an extremely high privilege. (This is coming from someone who didn’t always understand this concept)

Girl you can do whatever you want with your body, but just know that we truly do run the world. We have the very thing that men want. Not just 🐱, but our gaze, energy, and attention. Stand firm in your power, YOU set the tone.

Give yourself time to learn him and his true intentions before you allow him that level of access to you.

Ask questions! Many questions, even if they’re uncomfortable to say aloud! You need as much information as you can. Normalize asking him to get tested prior to any physical activities. This is your health we’re talking about! It’s not a game

s3x is a deeply serious act. Sure it’s fun but the basis on which it occurs has an impact on your emotional and mental state. You don’t wanna have it with someone you’re unsure of, with someone you can’t trust, with someone who doesn’t truly value or respect you.

WE are the prize. Make that man work for it!!! And if he isn’t willing to put in the work, he gotta go. Plain & simple.

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2025/6/8 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's world, understanding your worth is crucial, especially in relationships. Make Him Wait is not just a mantra, but an empowering approach to navigating intimacy. Before diving in, consider your emotional and mental well-being. Ask questions about your partner's intentions and ensure you feel comfortable and valued. The conversation about sexual health and testing is vital for both parties. Seeking clarity can prevent future regrets and ensures that both partners prioritize safety and trust. Relationships thrive when founded on respect, honesty, and understanding. If he’s not willing to put in the effort to know you and your standards, it’s a clear sign to reassess the connection. Always remember, you deserve someone who recognizes and cherishes your worth. Your body and emotions are sacred, and it's okay to take a step back and assess the situation. So, make him wait – because the right person will appreciate your standards and make the effort required to be with you.

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Brianna

There’s power in pacing. If he’s serious, he’ll respect the wait… and if he’s not, you just saved yourself time.

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Baby princess

Love this

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