you’re not about to call me a b*tch

With men this is a given lol

But even with friends, I find it unacceptable. I understand the word has become a throwaway term these days but I still can’t wrap my head around anyone calling me that.

I don’t curse much so that’s probably the leading cause for my reasoning

How is it cool that I’d let my home girl do it, but absurd when a man does it?? I’m aware that context is everything, but personally, referring to me using that term is a no go regardless.

#blackgirllemon8 #BeReal #friendship #letschat

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🤔Missing some history in the trend. housed Emotions, h8 in nothing gets everything ≈ Ms hit the hinge

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