... Read moreYou know that feeling, right? You and your bestie decide it's time for some perfectly posed, Instagram-worthy 'cute pics.' You pick the spot, you plan the outfits, you even practice your smiles. But then, the camera comes out, and suddenly, it's giggles, awkward poses, and pure chaos. My best friend and I have this exact struggle every single time! We might start with the best intentions, aiming for something polished and adorable, but our camera man (or woman, depending on who's holding the phone!) always seems to capture our true, unadulterated selves.
Honestly, we've tried everything. We've attempted the classic 'holding hands and looking into the distance' shot, the 'matching outfits, serious gaze' pose, and even the 'laughing at some unseen joke' candid-but-staged look. Without fail, one of us will make a bizarre face, burst into uncontrollable laughter, or just completely lose our composure. The result? A collection of photos that are anything but 'cute' in the traditional sense, but absolutely precious to us.
What I've realized is that these 'fails' are actually our greatest successes. While some might not be conventionally adorable, they perfectly capture our bond. We've got pictures where I'm mid-scream from a tickle attack, or my bestie is making a ridiculous face because she just told a terrible joke. These are the moments that make us burst out laughing every time we look back at them. Maybe our camera man loves to take candid photos because that's where the real magic happens!
So, if you and your bestie are also in the 'can't take cute pics' club, here are a few things I've learned to embrace:
Embrace the Chaos: Stop striving for perfection. The most memorable shots are often the unexpected, goofy ones.
Candids are Gold: Don't stress about posing. Just be yourselves, laugh, talk, and move. Let whoever is behind the camera just click away. You'll be surprised at the genuine moments you capture.
Find Your Funny Faces: Instead of trying to look perfectly serene, lean into the silliness! Make it a game to see who can make the funniest face.
Story Over Stagnancy: Think about what story you want to tell. Is it about a fun day out? A silly inside joke? The photos that capture the feeling of your friendship are always the best.
Don't Delete the 'Bloopers': Those outtakes are often the most adorable and reflective of your true friendship. We have so many 'out of focus' or 'mid-blink' photos that are just priceless.
Ultimately, our friendship isn't about perfectly posed pictures; it's about the genuine connection, the endless laughter, and the shared memories. Looking at our collection of funny, not-so-cute photos always reminds me of why I love my bestie so much. They're a testament to our unapologetically real and joyful relationship. And you know what? But we cute tho, even in our most un-posed, hilarious moments!