"Lessons from the Relationship That Almost Ruined My Life"🥺🫂

"Lessons from the Relationship That Almost Ruined My Life"

I used to have an ex-boyfriend.

I'm not sure if he's an addict.

Or just behave very close to it.

But what I'm sure of is that moment I wasn't even happy, I lived with paranoia.

Can't eat, can't sleep every day, have to be careful of his emotions, do not know whether today will be good or bad, do not know when he will get angry, and do not know where my "safety" is, one night I had to needle the motorcycle out of the house in the middle of the night with a heart that was both scared, confused, angry, and sorry for myself, I did not escape because I did not love, but fled because I did not feel safe.

There were several more ongoing events that made me realize

This kind of love is not only exhausting but it is ruining my life a little bit at a time, I feel like I am going to hell because of one "wrong choice."

And the most painful thing is not what he did, but that I have to blame myself for why I stayed there so long. Today I came out, but the traces of fear have always taught me that good love

Won't make us suspicious, won't scare us

And don't put our lives at risk of anyone's emotions if anyone is in a relationship that makes you not yourself, can't sleep, have to guess emotions.

Have to survive. Let me know one thing.

You're not weak, you just haven't come out of an unsafe place yet and you have the right to choose a calmer life.

Without feeling guilty about anyone. 🥺🫂

# Trick love

# A relationship that shouldn't be tolerated

# Unsafe love

# Life lessons

# Recap 2025

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