“but the most beautiful things in life are Not Just THINGS…”
dearest bby cuz Tiana,
as I sat through your beautiful home going service yesterday, here are a few things I observed…
- you were everyone’s baby 🥹 the youngest of the clan that in Lisa’s own words “had everyone wrapped around her pinkie” 😍💞
- you brought so much joy & laughter to any room you walked into but also, had sass & class to pair perfectly with it 👌💅✨
- your siblings? their entire world’s revolved around you. Yes everyone had something going on, but when it came to baby sis, baby girl? drop wyd & get her food time now! 🤪🤣😎 (that part made me love you more 🥹🤏)
- your extended families came from near and far to say their last worldly goodbyes to you because YES, you are that special to us💯🔒
- and last but not least, your dad? He misses his baby girl so so much but is such a soldier through this all.. but I bet you already knew that huh? 😉🥰
there was so much more cuz & I hope that as you sat front row with mum, that you both enjoyed every moment of it.🪽💞
I am ashamed to admit this our first meeting because as I sat there w/tears ran down my face, I felt so deeply connected to you. 🔗
through each story & letter, I learned who you were but also learned so much from you. 🙏💯
but I know that our reunion on the other side will be even sweeter! 😭❤️
til then, we will hold on to the photos & memories to keep you alive in our hearts/lives💞
pls watch over us but especially your siblings & dad🥰
Manuia Lou Malaga Uso! 🥹💞😇
Love you forever ♾️😘
Losing a loved one is an incredibly profound experience that often reshapes how we view life, love, and connection. Violet Tatiana Loua, born April 8, 2005, left behind a legacy marked by joy, laughter, and a unique sass and class that endeared her to everyone around her. At her homegoing service, those close to her shared stories that reflect the beautiful soul she was — the baby of the family who had everyone wrapped around her pinkie. One of the most touching aspects of Violet's story is the deep bond she shared with her siblings and extended family. Despite everyone's busy lives, they made Violet their priority — a testament to how special she was. This kind of familial devotion and love shows how important it is to cherish and nurture our family connections, especially during times of hardship. Violet’s joyful spirit and infectious energy served as a reminder that even in the face of loss, the memories and laughter shared with our loved ones continue to shine brightly. Keeping photos and stories alive allows families to hold onto these intangible gifts, creating a lasting tribute that brings comfort and keeps the spirit of those we have lost present in our hearts. Moreover, Violet’s father's strength amid grief highlights the resilience that often emerges from love and loss. It’s a reminder that while grief can be incredibly heavy, it often brings to light the silent courage and endurance of those left behind. The phrase “the most beautiful things in life are not just things” captures the essence of Violet's impact—not in material possessions but in the relationships, memories, and emotional bonds that define our lives. This tribute invites us all to cherish our loved ones daily, to express love openly, and to hold onto hope that reunions in another realm bring even greater joy. As we remember Violet Tatiana Loua, we’re encouraged to watch over our siblings, family, and loved ones with renewed compassion and dedication, honoring her memory through our actions and love. Life may be fragile, but love is enduring, and in that love, Violet will forever remain alive.
