yeahhhhhhhh I know

okay, so I totally bought some new heat, and while I am excited to wear each pair, dress like I totally feel guilty about buying it 😪

the guilt of being the first daughter, the most responsible one in the room always haunts me. I can't wait to talk to my therapist about it. I just get so like ahhhhhh, I could've spent that money on *insert whatever I could've spent more responsibly here*

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2024/11/11 Edited to

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