Losing someone you live with unexpectedly is a profoundly life-altering experience. Although I only knew my roommate for a short time—just three weeks—her presence was already a comforting part of my daily life. Suddenly, with her passing, I found myself confronting a wave of emotions: shock, sadness, and a deep sense of loneliness. It's important to allow yourself time to grieve in your own way. For me, recalling small moments we shared, like enjoying simple meals together or conversations about favorite foods (she loved spicy ramen and wontons, which we often shared), helped keep her memory alive in a meaningful way. I also learned the importance of reaching out to friends and family for support; talking about her and my feelings was crucial for healing. During such times, maintaining some daily routines helped restore a sense of normalcy. Cooking familiar meals, listening to music, or journaling my thoughts became small acts of self-care. If you're facing a similar loss, remember that grief is a personal journey, and there is no right or wrong way to feel or recover. Seeking professional help or support groups can also be beneficial. Ultimately, honoring your loved one's memory while taking care of your emotional wellbeing can guide you through this difficult chapter.