HOW I GOT MY VELCRO BABY TO NAP
My daughter ever since she was around four months old, just refuses to take naps during the day, even though she has no problem being in her crib alone at night. I swear I tried EVERYTHING for months to get her to nap in her crib, and I was racking my brain trying to think of things to try when finally my mom cracked the code while she was staying with my daughter for the weekend while we got away from her parents trip! (huge props to her 🙌🏼)
As for putting her down in her stomach, I’m not sure this would work for everyone, but if your baby prefers to sleep on their stomach this may work for you. My daughter would always wake up at night after I put her on her back and then flip over and go back to sleep, but when I put her down during the day and she would wake up, she wouldn’t go back to sleep. ever since I started putting her down on her stomach, she doesn’t really wake up. She just snuggles up and gets comfy and seems perfectly content. It’s incredible how much of a change this made! (NEVER PUT BABY DOWN ON THEIR STOMACH IF THEY CANNOT ROLL BOTH WAYS WELL!)
I’ve also been pairing that tactic with giving her a bottle before a nap instead of breast-feeding. I usually just do a bottle of breastmilk and a little bit of formula to it since formula is a little heavier and keeps her full for longer. for some reason, she just absolutely not nap after breast-feeding. I think she gets a little too comfy and then gets mad when I put her down. Honestly I’m not 100% sure what the deal is with that but the bottle works wonders for naps! Otherwise we breastfeed :)
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Finding the right nap routine for a 'velcro baby' can feel like solving a mystery, especially when you're desperate for a moment of peace! My journey involved a lot of trial and error, but the two main breakthroughs I shared really changed our lives. I wanted to add a bit more detail about how I implemented these and other small things that made a big difference, especially for parents wondering about baby sleeping on stomach after rolling and how to truly get a velcro baby to sleep alone. First, let's dive a bit deeper into the stomach sleeping. I cannot stress enough the importance of waiting until your baby can roll both ways independently and consistently. For us, this wasn't just a one-off roll; it was seeing her confidently flip from back to tummy and tummy to back multiple times during playtime. I remember watching her in her sleepsuit during her awake time, practicing her rolls, and only then did I feel comfortable trying it for naps. The image of her finally peaceful, sleeping on its stomach in her crib, was such a relief. It really felt like she was just more comfortable and secure that way, almost like replicating the snugness of being held. If your baby rolling both directions is still a new skill, continue with back sleeping for safety. Always consult your pediatrician if you have any concerns about safe sleep practices. Next, the bottle before naps was a game-changer. My little one would get so cozy breastfeeding, which was lovely for bonding, but it was like a comfort feed rather than a 'full' feed for a nap. Introducing a bottle with a mix of breastmilk and a little formula truly made a difference. The formula is a bit heavier and kept her feeling satisfied for longer, preventing those hunger-related short naps. If you're struggling to introduce a bottle to a breastfed baby, try having someone else offer it first, and experiment with different nipple flows and shapes. Make sure the bottle before naps becomes a consistent part of your nap routine, signaling to your baby that sleep is coming. Beyond these two main tactics, I also found that consistency in the nap environment was crucial for putting baby down for nap. We use blackout curtains to make the room really dark, and a white noise machine to block out household sounds. Creating a calming pre-nap routine, even if it's just 10-15 minutes of quiet play or a quick book, helps signal to her brain that it's time to wind down. For those of you with a true velcro baby, you know the struggle is real. Before these breakthroughs, I tried everything from contact napping (which was lovely but unsustainable for me) to elaborate rocking and shushing rituals. The key, I realized, was finding what made her feel secure enough to let go and sleep alone. It wasn't about forcing it, but finding her natural preference once safety was assured. Finally, a quick note for parents of newborn baby sleeping contact napping positions or toddler sleeping on stomach. These tips are primarily for babies who are past the newborn stage and have developed strong motor skills like rolling. Newborns have very different sleep needs, and contact napping is often a beautiful and necessary part of that phase. As babies grow into toddler sleeping on stomach, it often becomes their preferred position naturally, reinforcing that once they can roll, they will usually find their most comfortable and safe position. My goal with these tips is to share how I navigated the tricky transition from needing constant contact to achieving independent, restful naps – a journey I hope helps other moms out there!


