if he never buys you flowers ..... 🚩

So my beau got me flowers the other day and I couldn't be more appreciative! He was in the store, thought about me and executed.

Ladies, if your man doesn't come home with flowers every once in a while that's a red flag. How long have you been with him? 5 years and he never bought you flowers????? BYE

#relationshipgreenflags #flowers from boyfriend #flowersfrommyboyfriend #

2025/4/10 Edited to

... Read moreReceiving flowers is often seen as a romantic gesture, symbolizing care and appreciation. It's important to communicate needs within a relationship, and when such small acts of kindness are missed, it could be indicative of deeper issues. Understanding love languages can also play a key role in how partners express their affection. A partner who consistently brings home flowers may showcase thoughtfulness and consideration, two essential components of a healthy relationship. On the contrary, if you find that your significant other fails to make these gestures after several years together, it might not only hurt your feelings but could also signal a lack of emotional investment. Navigating these conversations openly can enhance the emotional connection and commitment. Remember, it's not just about flowers, but about feeling valued and appreciated in your relationship.

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I’m surprised by how many ladies in the comments are just missing it. It’s not necessarily a red flag if he doesn’t buy you flowers, but if you are a woman who loves flowers and he doesn’t get them that is the red flag.

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So what do you buy for him that's equivalent? It goes both ways. Yoir expectations of him sound like a red flag tbh.

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