the value of adding something new

I hung long blue curtains up in our bedroom today and it made such a dramatic difference 🖤

If I don't add a lil something here and there every so often I start to feel stagnant and stir crazy.

Today I realized we've been homeowners for just as long as we were full-time travelers.

I used to pack up the whole RV and deep clean and redecorate constantly, moving from location to location.

Staying in one house has such benefits, and I'm glad to be in this era over the traveler phase. But sometimes if I don't feel like I'm making progress on decorating/renovating the house I get stir crazy, like I maybe got a little addicted to the constant change of scenery.

Good thing it takes time to collect pieces and rip out walls because there are still a LOT of things we want to change about the house!

When's the last time you added something new in your place?

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... Read moreI’ve found that incorporating something new into your living space, no matter how small, can significantly uplift your spirits and overall sense of well-being. For me, hanging new long blue curtains instantly changed the feel of our bedroom, making it more vibrant and cozy. If you spend too long without adding or changing anything, it's easy to start feeling stuck or restless — especially if you’re used to frequent changes like moving or redecorating. Having transitioned from full-time traveling to settling in a permanent home, I’ve realized how important it is to keep infusing your space with fresh elements to maintain that sense of progress and creativity. When we were on the road constantly packing up our RV, redecorating and deep cleaning was a necessity, and it kept the environment exciting. Now, even though staying in one place offers stability and advantages, it can sometimes feel a bit static unless you actively make changes. Adding something new doesn’t have to be an overhaul. It might mean bringing in a unique piece of furniture, painting a wall a different color, or even small updates like swapping out curtain fabrics for a more dramatic or soothing color tone. These small acts help break the monotony and keep your living space feeling dynamic and personalized. I encourage anyone feeling the stir-crazy sensation at home to consider when they last put something new in their room or house. Whether it’s a practical renovation or just a subtle decorative tweak, these small enhancements can boost your mood and make your home feel re-energized. Over time, as you collect meaningful pieces or complete renovations one step at a time, the accumulated changes will transform your space into a true reflection of your evolving style and comfort needs. Remember, creating a home is a journey, and the value lies in these ongoing additions and tweaks that bring life and comfort to your environment.

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