A little change never hurts

A quote I’ve recently been living by is “the time will pass either way” and one thing about my hair is it has become my identity over the last decade. I have had bleach blonde hair since I was in high school and have taken minimum breaks. I have always wondered what it would be like to have red hair, but I would never be able to get back my icy blonde if I chose I didn’t prefer it. The fear of changing a quality that people identified me with was greater than my experience as a person for so long. And one day I woke up and was just bored. Bored of why I cared, bored of not being satisfied when I looked in the mirror. Just flat out bored. I was ready for a change. You’ll never truly know if you like something unless you do it, so here’s your reminder that things don’t have to be as deep as they feel and please just try something even if it’s just for the sake of experience. The time will pass either way, you can evolve and understand yourself better or stay stagnant out of fear. I’m pretty pleased with the change, what do you guys think? Are you liking the red? #hairstyles #bleachblonde #hairchange #redhair

Vulnerability

🤍 My Story: it’s hard to make a change, especially when something isn’t broken

🤍 How I Felt: i was scared. it took me 6 years of going back and forth in my head. afraid to make the wrong choice, even if it is considered frivolous or superficial for some

🤍 My Takeaways: if you’re ready for a change do it! follow where you feel you’re being pulled. you never know until you experience it

2025/3/19 Edited to

... Read moreIt's truly incredible how much our hair can become a part of who we are, an extension of our identity. I completely understand the hesitation when it comes to making a big change, especially if you've been rocking a signature look, like bleach blonde, for years. I’ve been there, staring in the mirror, loving my current look but also feeling that nagging whisper for something new, something *bold*. That fear of losing what people recognize you for, or worse, making a choice you regret, can be paralyzing. But what if that change is exactly what you need to unlock a new level of confidence and self-discovery? Taking the plunge from a bright, icy blonde to a vibrant red is a significant transformation, both emotionally and technically. For anyone considering this exciting journey, know that it's not just about the color, but the entire experience. Going from blonde to red often requires careful consideration to avoid unwanted greenish tones, which is why consulting with a skilled colorist is paramount. They can assess your hair's history and porosity, ensuring a rich, natural-looking reddish-brown hue that complements your skin tone. Once you embrace the red, a whole new world opens up. I've found that a bold hair color can inspire an entirely new aesthetic. Suddenly, you might feel drawn to richer makeup shades, like a striking dark lipstick, or find yourself reaching for more daring fashion choices, perhaps a chic black lace top paired with a sharp blazer and tailored pants, just like the confident woman in the image. It’s not just the hair; it’s the entire vibe. The new color can amplify your presence, making you feel more assertive and stylish, as if you’ve stepped into a more vibrant version of yourself. Standing tall, perhaps even in front of an abstract painting that reflects your renewed zest for life – that’s the feeling a truly transformative hair change can bring. Maintaining red hair is also a unique journey. Red pigments are notorious for fading, so investing in color-safe shampoos and conditioners, washing with cooler water, and less frequently, can help preserve that gorgeous, fiery shade. Regular gloss treatments can also keep the color fresh and shiny. It’s a commitment, yes, but one that rewards you with a constant burst of energy and a visual reminder of your bravery. Ultimately, the message is clear: don't let fear keep you stagnant. Life is too short to wonder "what if." Whether it's a dramatic hair change or any other personal evolution, trying something new, even if it feels frivolous to others, can lead to profound personal growth. The time will indeed pass either way, so why not spend it evolving, discovering new facets of your personality, and perhaps even finding a new favorite shade that makes you feel incredibly empowered? It’s about the experience, the journey, and the joy of seeing yourself in a new light.

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