From the heart of the bride, the wedding almost collapsed.

When being proposed, I was very happy.

But nobody said "wedding prep" was...

Will be the hardest fight. 😅

Both with my girlfriend and my family.

It's not because anyone doesn't hope well.

But because "everyone has their own wedding picture."

For our partner

The servant-girl wants to organize a casual event.

Focus on evenings, parties, celebrations with friends and confidants.

But adults want a morning monastic ceremony. No afternoon.

And wanted a customary ceremony.

At first secretly thought that

"What's so hard for a wedding?"

So it's hard. 😂

Because when I started going into real details,

Time, location, budget, job style and number of guests.

Everything has to be considered by many parties.

Finally, to make everyone comfortable and in a very non-escalating statement.

So we decided to divide the work into two sessions.

☀️ Morning Event - Organize a Monastic Ceremony, Engage, Raise Tea, Send Into the Tower, Simple Home, Only Adult and Family Relatives

Ladies prepare as much as they can and hire only the necessary parts.

🌙 Cold work - arranged at the venue the way the bride intended.

Friends, relatives and parents attended.

With the bride 😂, many things choose to do by themselves

Favors, offerings, bingo games at the event, guest drawing boards, and presentations, all done by yourself. 🤣

Even flowers on bridesmaids' wrists are a family event.

Overall, the budget increased a little. There was a slight division of guests.

But it's all what adults want and what we want. 🤍

But the most curious thing to remind every pair is...

"Number of guests"

I want you to talk clearly before you choose a real place. 🥹

At first, our home understood that we wanted to organize a small event.

So the number of guests is relatively small

So we chose a very limited venue.

Because I think that the number of people like this should be fit

But when it's close to the day of the real concert

The family asked

"How many more will you get?"

And then we simply thought,

"A little more would be fine." So I told you that I wanted to invite because the number of guests they initially reported was very small. We had a lot of allowance.

The conclusion is...

Guests beyond space

And beyond the package. 😭

Which venue we chose

The cost of food per capita is quite high.

At first we chose here.

Because the total number of guests is still in the budget.

But enough more people

Everything then escalated.

Statements, stress and family conversations.

Finally....

Only money knocks everything. 😂

Agree to pay and finish (but until we agree to finish, haha. Although it is husband's money, but regret instead that it is over budget in mind)

And if you can go back in time,

The most wanted to do was "discuss the details clearly in the first place."

Especially about

* Number of guests

* What adults expect

I hope that this post will help the couple who are preparing for the wedding to plan better with the word "know this" less.

As for our partner, this is all full. 😂🥹

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♪ What to know before preparing for the wedding ♪ ♪ New girl