Brothers and sisters

Brothers who stepped on each other until almost the ground

Don't "call relatives."

A bloodline may cause it to come into the same house.

But kinship is measured at the action

Not "last name."

If the person you call a brother or sister

Is the person who stared to aggravate on the day you missed

Is the one who takes your inferiority to preach, or the one who tries to press you lower to make yourself look taller...Stop calling them relatives, because the word relative should have a safer meaning.

When "home" is not a safe zone,

But a "battleground."

Many people have to bear guilt simply for wanting to back away from their siblings at Toxic with the word "filial" or

"Family unity" comes around the neck.

But remember:

• Mayhem or Mental: Whether from a stranger or someone in the home, it is equally "hurting."

• Bloodline is not a warrant: No one has the right to trample on your dignity, just because he was born first or born in the same stomach.

• Silence is not the solution: tolerating him stepping on the ground does not help the family love each other, but it does allow him to bully you.

Measure kinship at

"Action" is not "DNA."

On the day of your crisis, the person who reaches out to pull you up may be a close friend or a stranger who has recently known each other.

Some "brothers" might be the first to prepare a shovel to dig your grave.

If his actions do not represent love, goodwill, or even basic human preference for each other, the surname at the end is just

"Same written letters."

Choose to "cut" to make yourself "survive."

Retreating from a mean sibling is not ungrateful, but it is "loving yourself." If maintaining a relationship causes you to lose your identity or live like a drowner, choosing to be a happy stranger is better than being a # sibling who hates each other to death.

Remember that...We can't choose a birther, but we can always choose a family that will be there for us.