Am I a bad wife for NEVER cooking ?

I am many things but a cook is NOT one of them. I’m probably the last person you’d want in the kitchen—not because the food tastes bad (I can cook), but because it’s a hazard when I do.

🔥 I’ve burned myself (badly), cut myself, dropped knives, and even started a fire just trying to boil water.

Everyone who knows me—my husband, my sisters, my friends—begs me not to go in the kitchen lmao I don’t even think I’m that bad but I’ve burned myself 3x in the last 3 months 😂😂

So my husband does all the cooking, and I handle all the cleaning. The only appliance I’m “allowed” to use when I’m home alone is the microwave. When he went to Arizona for a weekend, he literally told me to just DoorDash so I wouldn’t risk anything.

I don’t think that makes me a lazy wife. It just makes me accident-prone. 😂 But I do want to take a kitchen safety class someday so I can stop being so clumsy. For now, he cooks and I clean—and it works for us. 💕

Are you the cook or the cleaner in your relationship ?

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2025/9/22 Edited to

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LaToyaDenise🦄

Please take some cooking classes or something… maybe a cooking workshop.. it could be a date, make it fun…. But sis you definitely need to cook and know how to cook.. this isn’t good

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Briley Jarrell

Well if he likes to cook and you help with other things then I think it’s fair as long as y’all are both doing your part

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