She Sent Two Emails and Then Disappeared
Forty minutes passed between Toni Bachman’s first email and her second. In the first, she said her husband was on his way home to fight.
In the second, she told her online boyfriend she loved him. Then she added that her husband was watching her type that message.
That was the last anyone heard from Toni Bachman. She was 38 years old and had just started a job she was excited about. She had found love. She was making plans.
Episode 1 of Toni’s story is out now on She Goes by Jane with a special poetry tribute for Toni read by actress Astrid Rotenberry
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🕯️ Toni has now been missing 29 years. Share her story.
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The disappearance of Toni Bachman remains a haunting mystery that continues to captivate many true crime enthusiasts even decades later. Toni was not just any missing person; she was a young woman who was full of hope and potential—having just started an exciting job at Hamline University and embracing new love. The fact that her last known communications were two emotionally charged emails sent forty minutes apart, hinting at domestic conflict and her feelings for an online boyfriend, adds a complex layer to her story. One thing I learned while following Toni's case is the heartbreaking reality that missing persons cases, especially those involving potential domestic issues, can sometimes get lost amidst the noise. There were details like Toni not taking her beloved yellow Yugo car, not accessing her bank accounts, and leaving behind personal items in her closet—all signs pointing to an unexpected disappearance rather than a planned departure. Her husband’s claim that she left a note which he lost adds suspicion and uncertainty. Listening to the "She Goes by Jane" podcast, especially episodes narrated with poetic tributes, really brings out the human side of Toni's story—her hopes, fears, and the silence that followed. For anyone interested in true crime or supporting missing persons cases, sharing stories like Toni's is vital. It keeps the memory alive and increases the chances that someone with crucial information might come forward. From my own experience researching and following cases like Toni’s, it’s important to understand the impact such disappearances have on families and communities. Awareness raised through podcasts, social media discussions under hashtags like #tonibachman and #missingpersons, and newsletters helps maintain public interest. Each listener or reader becomes part of a network that could potentially uncover new leads. If you or anyone you know has information or just wants to support missing persons advocacy, engaging with podcasts and sharing such stories is a meaningful way to participate. Toni’s disappearance is a stark reminder of the fragility of safety and the enduring hope for answers even after 29 years of silence.
Why is it when a women dissappears and her and her husband were arguing that cops are always ready to take his word that she left and disappeared willingly. That the argued and she just left the kids with him and never said bye to her kids. Most women would at least say bye to her kids if not anything else. Leave them notes or try and call to get in touch. Show up to the school if he didn't allow them to say goodbye. He should have been the main suspect and treated like a criminal.