Stay sane post-separation 💔
How I’m holding up after my husband decided we should separate when I was 8 months pregnant with our second planned daughter???
Yeah.. it’s a lot. Let’s talk about it.
When I tell you I was completely blind sided? I do mean in all aspects I’ve never saw this coming 😓
He felt things cannot be reconciled & he doesn’t want to focus on our marriage, just himself and our daughters.
Talk about heartbreak ? ❤️🩹 it’s something I try to manage daily…
At least I’m at a point that I don’t spend the day crying anymore..
Im still taking things day by day. Learning to let things go. I’m definitely still in wife mode 100%. It’s hard to get out of it when I prided myself on being a wife and mother. It’s something within me..
Learning to let go of that part of me is a lot harder when I haven’t moved on in any aspect. I’ve never spoken to any man, cheated, thought of anyone being attractive. Ever had a desire of being with someone else. Nothing .. and to even attempt to allow myself to feel those things about other men seems so illegal to me.
I’m definitely on a new healing journey and I have to “rediscover” a part of me I’ve never felt lost in.. idk if that makes any sense…
I was never unhappy enough to not be married to that person.
I never felt this amount of unloved and unwanted feelings before.
I never thought he felt that way. And I never thought he would have cheated on me physically, emotionally and mentally. That man has moved on in ever aspect from me and I just have to deal with it. I didn’t even have a fighting chance of saving our marriage and that breaks me even more. I’m angry all around.
Im hurt beyond measures.. but one day I will truly be healed. That day isn’t here yet but one day it will be 💞
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Going through a separation, especially during a significant life event like pregnancy, can be overwhelming. Many individuals face emotional challenges when their relationships abruptly change, leading to feelings of sadness, anger, and confusion. It's essential to understand that healing is a process, and everyone experiences it differently. Seeking support from friends, family, and communities like support groups can be beneficial. Engaging with others who have experienced similar situations can provide comfort and insights into coping strategies. Utilizing journaling or therapy can also serve as effective outlets for processing feelings. Practicing self-care routines is vital during this time. Activities such as meditation, exercise, and creative pursuits can promote emotional well-being. Additionally, trying to establish new routines can help in creating a sense of normalcy amidst chaos. As individuals begin to heal, they often focus on rediscovering their identities outside of their relationships, which is an empowering step towards recovery. Remember, healing takes time, and while painful emotions may linger, there is hope for brighter days ahead. Embracing change and allowing oneself to feel a myriad of emotions can lead to personal growth and a renewed sense of purpose.
Wow well lemme tell you this US WOMEN ARE STRONG 💪 WE ARE FIGHTERS DEFINITELY 💯,,,,,& as much as this may hurt rn you will get through this in due time and you will have a refound love ❤️ for yourself that you’ve never had before this only TEMPORARY I promise you ..& those two beautiful 😍 bbygirls gnn keep u going