Being a girl mom sucks.. (sometimes)

Being a girl mom sucks… (sometimes)

Im the mom- I set the tone and expectations for my daughters. How can I talk to her about beauty when I feel so disgusted with myself 🥲

I’m going through so many new emotions these days and I’ve never felt this way about myself before. Im struggling with my own self worth and love.

Pouring life back into my daughters when I’m so drained has been one of the hardest tasks of motherhood for me.

Recently my oldest has learned the word U•G•L•Y and every time she makes a comment about herself, my heart absolutely breaks.

I’ve never felt soo U•G•L•Y in my life.. and hearing my 4 year old say it feels like a personal attack on me.

It feels like 1. I’m failing her because I haven’t been speaking life to her lately.

2. It’s a depiction of how I see myself.

My daughters are the most beautiful and perfect beings in my life.

To any girl, women, or person who feels U•G•L•Y

I pray this is just a season and you’re able to find your own beauty and self worth.

You never know who’s watching…

#embracemotherhood #girlmomma #selflovejourney #vulnerability #singlemom

2024/12/10 Edited to

... Read moreMotherhood, especially for moms of daughters, is a profound journey filled with unique challenges. Many mothers experience feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt, which can impact their ability to nurture their children. An increasing number of studies highlight how a mother’s self-image influences her daughter’s perception of beauty and self-worth. For instance, discussions around body positivity and self-love are essential as young girls begin to develop their self-identity. It's crucial for mothers to understand that their feelings are valid and common. Engaging in self-care, seeking support, and fostering an environment that emphasizes positive communication about beauty can greatly aid in breaking the cycle of negativity. Resources like parenting blogs, workshops, and support groups, focused on girl mom experiences, can empower mothers to be more introspective and confident, ultimately benefiting both themselves and their daughters. Furthermore, promoting open dialogue about feelings of inadequacy and societal beauty standards can help in reframing negative thoughts. Encouraging daughters to express their emotions and thoughts on self-image cultivates resilience. As this conversation continues, it becomes easier for both moms and daughters to navigate societal pressures related to beauty and acceptance, paving the way for a more positive self-view.

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th3ir3

wow you have a beautiful family im 49 single man with no kids and yes I'm a real man that love kids you caught my eye

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BLVCKBVNNY

Affirmations please. This made me so sad because you all are so cute. ❤️❤️❤️

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