7 things IDC to do in 2025

Okay.. my birthday was to lit this year. I was tore up from the floor up 🥲

But in lieu of me turning 27 here’s 7 things I don’t care to do in 2025:

1. Being debt free- I plan to pay off some things and build credit but to be 100% debt free ? Nah idc that much

2. Paying off my car

3. Selling my house

4. Reconciliation/Remaining separated or divorced- I want to follow through w/ filing but honesty… it’s not me who doesn’t want to be married so why should I file?? Idk I’m still thinking about this one.

5. Sharing holidays- I’m still close to their dad’s family but I do want to have some distance from them. I don’t want to fight about holidays.

6. Pumping/Breast feeding- my youngest will be 3 months in January and I’m expected to go back to work. Idk how well I’ll balance everything. If I can do it I will.. if not oh well. Fed is best!

7. Being in a rush to move out of my mom’s house. I absolutely would love to move and probably really should. Me and my girls are cramped into 1 room but honestly I’m trying to remain thankful and use this time to achieve some goals. I will move when it’s my time or until I can’t take it anymore lol 🤷🏾‍♀️

Now if any of these things happen that’s GREAT! I would absolutely love anything extra but honestly none of these are solid goals of mine. I’m just living life and life is living me lol

#2025 #vulnerability #singlemom #divorce #girlmomma

2024/12/11 Edited to

... Read moreAs we approach 2025, it's a time for reflection on our aspirations and goals. Many people face pressure to achieve certain milestones such as financial stability or personal relationships, often influenced by societal expectations. However, it's essential to recognize that everyone's journey is unique, and not adhering to traditional goals can lead to personal growth and understanding. For instance, the idea of being completely debt-free may seem ideal, but it’s also crucial to acknowledge that managing debt while building a positive credit history can be a practical approach for many. The emphasis on self-care and mental health is gaining traction, making it understandable if someone decides to prioritize their well-being over paying off debts aggressively. Additionally, with the complexities of family dynamics, particularly for single parents, choosing not to rush into things such as moving out or maintaining proximity to a blended family can also showcase maturity and wisdom. Instead of conforming to expectations, it's beneficial to focus on the values that matter most, like gratitude and personal happiness. When it comes to career and motherhood, many expect mothers to juggle numerous responsibilities seamlessly. However, it is vital to accept that sometimes it’s okay to draw boundaries around what you can and cannot achieve, whether that means breastfeeding, returning to work, or simply having space to breathe. Embracing vulnerability and authenticity in decisions can foster a universe of fulfillment that aligns with your unique life circumstances. As we step into 2025, let’s encourage ourselves and others to embrace what feels right rather than what looks good from the outside.

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