How to make Narcissist let us go ourselves (without us losing our identity)

How to make Narcissist let us go ourselves

(Without us losing our identity)

Outside, a Narcissist might look like

• Love us so much

• Take care of us

• Adore us.

But this kind of relationship often has another side.

The day he was in a good mood.

He's probably the best guy in the world.

But the day he was in a bad mood,

He may destroy our confidence.

Devalue us

And control our lives.

Many people think

Had to "escape" alone.

But the truth has another way.

Is to make him let us go.

And we can still maintain our identity.

1. Stop being a source of power to him.

People with Narcissist traits always want one thing.

Is control and emotional response.

If he curses, then we are angry.

If he presses, then we explain.

He'll control us even more.

But if we start answering briefly, still,

Not playing emotional games.

He will gradually feel

Can't control us as before

2. Keep our world to ourselves

Don't tell me everything in life.

• Dream

• Future Plan

• Deep feelings

Because people like this might use those data.

Get back in control of us.

To start having their own space.

A world he can't reach.

3. Create a life that doesn't revolve around him.

Start having these things in life.

• A job we are proud of.

• Good friend

• Own activities

• Own goals

People with Narcissist traits often need people who rely on him.

When we have our own lives,

He'll feel harder to control.

4. Do not clash directly.

Telling him that.

"You are narcissi."

Doesn't usually help.

Because he might be angry.

And try to control harder than ever.

A safer way.

Is to step back quietly.

5. Keep our identity

The most important thing is not to beat him.

But not losing our identity.

Remember, you're worth it.

Even no one came to endorse

And a good relationship.

Shouldn't make us feel smaller.

🌿 Sometimes winning in a relationship like this

Not a fight.

But to slowly walk out.

Along with a complete identity.

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