Be the woman you would look up to

🤍 My Story: I’ve always had big dreams. Pinterest boards with thousands of ideas. As a little girl I had admiration that could reach the moon. Never did I expect I would have been a teen mom or homeless at 16. As I enter the year of 2024 I was looking at all of my past yearly vision boards and these quotes stuck out the most to me.

🤍 The biggest question: WHERE DID SHE GO? Where is the girl with the dreams. The girl that let nobody get in her way. Where are the fruits of my desires. Where is the grace I used to give myself to be uncomfortable to go after a life I wanted.

🤍 My Takeaways: little did I know the woman I looked up to was the version of me that believed in herself. “What would you do if there was no such thing as failure” #wellness #Lemon8Diary #insperation #mentalmotivation #goals #embracevulnerability #shareyourthoughts #modivation #mindfulness #qoutes

2024/1/29 Edited to

... Read moreI wanted to add a bit more about something that truly held me back for years: procrastination. It's easy to dismiss it as just putting things off, but reflecting on my journey, I realize 'the cost of procrastination' isn't just lost time; 'it's the life you could have lived.' For me, it meant delaying important steps towards financial stability and truly believing I deserved better. I'd have these grand plans, these dreams on my vision board, but then the fear of failure or just the sheer overwhelm would paralyze me. I remember looking at my Pinterest boards filled with thousands of inspiring ideas, yet doing nothing about them, feeling utterly stuck and disheartened. It took a lot of introspection to understand that 'everything happens on a mental level before it manifests on the physical level.' My mindset was, without a doubt, my biggest obstacle. I had to truly start to 'believe in myself' again, even when external circumstances like being a teen mom and experiencing homelessness were screaming otherwise. Those past struggles felt like heavy chains, weighing down my ambition. But slowly, I realized that 'your only limit is your mind.' If I could consciously shift my focus from the daunting 'obstacles' to the compelling 'goal,' things would inevitably begin to change. This is where my vision board transformed from just a collection of pretty pictures into a powerful, actionable roadmap. For those of you wondering about the 'vision board debt free' aspect, I specifically started creating dedicated sections for financial freedom. It wasn't just about abstractly saving money; it was about vividly visualizing a life where debt no longer dictated my choices or limited my dreams. I meticulously placed images of a paid-off car, a fully funded emergency savings account, and even a mock-up of my credit score soaring. Every single time I felt the urge to procrastinate on budgeting, tracking expenses, or finding extra income, I'd look at that board. It served as a constant, tangible reminder to 'focus on the goal, not the obstacle.' I learned to break down those seemingly monumental 'debt free' goals into smaller, more digestible steps. Instead of just thinking "pay off all my debt," I'd write down "pay an extra $50 on X credit card this month" or "save $100 from my next paycheck." This strategic approach made the journey less daunting and effectively chipped away at the procrastination monster. It’s all about building consistent momentum, celebrating small wins, and remembering that the woman who believed in herself, the one you truly look up to, is already within you. You owe it to yourself to become everything you've ever dreamed of being – don’t let procrastination steal another precious day or another potential dream.

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