Getting over driving anxiety

I used to have such severe anxiety around driving that I didn’t even get my license or learn how to drive when I was a teen. I went to college without a car or license and I just used public transportation. When my student teaching for my degree began this is when I bought a junker car to learn on because I was doing my semester in my tiny hometown where it would be easier to drive. I had to work through some fears in talk therapy before I could really get over it though! Now I love driving. Anyone else get really anxious about driving?

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2025/9/2 Edited to

... Read moreDriving anxiety is a common challenge that many people face, and overcoming it often requires time and patience. One effective strategy is gradual exposure—starting with short, familiar routes before progressing to more complex driving situations. This approach helps desensitize the fear response and build confidence steadily. Another key method is talk therapy, particularly cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which can help identify and change negative thought patterns that contribute to driving fears. Working with a therapist provides valuable tools to manage anxiety symptoms such as panic or avoidance. Many who struggle with driving anxiety find it helpful to practice in a low-stress environment. Using an older or less expensive vehicle, often referred to as a "junker car," can reduce worry about damage and encourage a focus on building skills rather than perfection. Additionally, practicing with a trusted friend or instructor can offer support and constructive feedback. It’s also important to acknowledge that anxiety around driving is valid and common. Sharing experiences with others who have similar fears can create a sense of community and reduce feelings of isolation. Many online forums and social media groups offer support and tips for those working through their driving anxiety. In sum, overcoming driving anxiety involves a combination of exposure, professional support, practice, and community. With consistent effort, it's possible to move from avoidance to enjoying the freedom and independence that driving provides.

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🖤☠️Kimiko☠️🖤's images
🖤☠️Kimiko☠️🖤

About a year ago I started driving school, and in March of 2025, I had gotten my license first try. 5 months after the fact I had gotten into a car accident. I still have driving anxiety, even after passing and even more after the accident.

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UniquelyDyme🤎

I have to go to drive 4 hrs away & 4 hrs back next week and that includes being on the highway. I fear of entering the highway especially during rush hour. Just the thought of not being able to get into my lain because of too many cars being in the right lane or just simply having a car in my blind spot and I don’t see the car when I’m moving over.

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