Im good..
The most confusing season of growth is when the old version of you no longer fits, but the new version hasn’t fully arrived. So when people ask how I’m doing, I just say “good” and change the subject.
There have been times in my life when I felt stuck in what I now think of as a 'quantum purgatory'—a space where the old version of myself had faded, but the new one wasn’t fully formed yet. It’s like being caught between chapters of a book, unsure how to describe how you feel to others. During these moments, answering the common question “How are you?” with a simple “I’m good” becomes a protective reflex. It’s easier than recounting the complexity of internal change or the discomfort of uncertainty. But this phase, confusing as it is, is a critical part of growth—it's where transformation is quietly happening beneath the surface. From personal experience, I’ve learned that embracing the discomfort, rather than rushing to resolve it, allows for authentic development. Journaling, meditation, and open conversations with trusted friends help me articulate feelings that once felt indescribable. If you find yourself in this space, know that it’s okay not to have all the answers right now. Growth is rarely linear, and sometimes you have to live through this ambiguous period before emerging as a stronger, clearer version of yourself. Trust the process—this season of change is your personal evolution unfolding.

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