Birth Story - Trigger Warning
At 32 weeks we found out Milo was measuring small and was 4 lbs and 4 oz. I was set up on a 2 week follow up.
At 34 weeks I was told I had borderline polyhydramnios so we had to come back weekly and check that along with making sure Milo gained weight.
At 35 weeks I was 4 cm dilated so I was put on modified bed rest.
At 36 weeks I was still dilated 4 cm, but Milo had only gained 2 oz and I was officially considered an IUGR pregnancy so we made the decision to induce 2 days later.
Delivery was… well pretty scary.
I had my water broken around 8:30 am Thursday, June 13 and immediately Milo’s heart rate dropped severely. They were just about to take me for an emergency c-section when it finally started to climb. Things went by so fast after that and every contraction I had caused his heart rate to drop so I decided to get an epidural to see if that would help him (the plan was an unmedicated birth). The first epidural was in a bad spot and it made my heart rate skyrocket causing dizziness so they had to take it out and redo it. During this time, Milo’s heart rate dropped even more and when it came back up I was at 10 cm and had to push. The epidural ended up not taking and my POTS exhausted me so badly I honestly didn’t think I had it in me to keep going. But Milo made it out and after some oxygen for both of us and suction for him to get excess amniotic fluid out, he was laid in my arms and I got to hold my perfect little boy.
I can’t thank my mom and husband enough for being by my side the entire time. It was traumatic for all of us to say the least, but Milo passed all his tests and we are now home.
Milo Louis made his appearance on June 13 at 10:39 am. He was 4 lbs and 11 oz measuring 17 inches long. I can’t wait to spend my life loving on this little boy. 🩵🩵🩵
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The birth of a child can often come with unexpected challenges and emotional trials, as seen in this birth story. IUGR (Intrauterine Growth Restriction) can place stress on both mother and baby, necessitating a series of careful monitoring and tough decisions. This condition requires regular follow-ups and sometimes early intervention, as evidenced by the case of Milo. Polyhydramnios, a condition where there is too much amniotic fluid, can also lead to complications during labor. For many mothers, the journey may include unforeseen health risks, necessitating additional support and procedures such as epidurals or emergency C-sections. In cases like these, it's important for parents to be aware of coping mechanisms and support systems available to them. They can find community support through online forums focusing on premature births, birth trauma, or first-time motherhood. Sharing experiences can provide relief and insight into navigating such challenging times. Moreover, ensuring a healthy postpartum period is crucial for both maternal mental health and bonding with the newborn. Resources are available for new parents to help them understand and navigate their emotions and challenges effectively.
I named my son Milo as well! And I had to be induced with him, planned for no epidural but ended up getting one, and his heart rate kept dropping with every bit of pitocin! I pushed for 4 hours. Giving birth is WILD!