Extended Nursing (Breastfeeding longer then 12m)
I get a LOT of opinions when it comes to me still breastfeeding my son.
He’ll be 3 in the summer and currently still gets the boob almost whenever he wants.
⚫︎ I’ve been told by his old pediatrician to STOP nursing him by 2. It was not a a suggestion, more like a demand.
⚫︎ He’s too big to nurse.
⚫︎ No benefits whatsoever to nurse after 12 months.
⚫︎ Only nursing now for me.
⚫︎ It’s gross to keep nursing him.
⚫︎ I’ll make him ‘gay’ if I keep nursing
And honestly so much more.
❀ Benefits from nursing do not stop at 12 months of age. It isn’t like your body ~magically~ stop giving the nutrients once your baby turns 1.
❀ It’s a great way of continuing the bond between baby and mom.
❀ It IS okay if you aren’t ready to stop nursing your child. I have a LOT of trama when it comes to my child and bonding due to what went on with my daughter.
❀ Loving and caring for your child, whether it be a boy or girl, won’t make them gay or any other negative outlook.
❀ Honestly it is my child and I will stop when HE’S ready.
Yes there are times where it is a lot to keep nursing him. And when he’s sick it’s harder because he wants me and only me and wants the boob all day. He still eats food. He plays. He’s very active. This is just one thing that helps him sleep and get better faster when he is sick.
It really seems like you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t. But I won’t let that stop me from doing what I feel is best for my boy.
What are your thoughts on breastfeeding and extended breastfeeding?
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Extended nursing, or breastfeeding beyond 12 months, often sparks debate and differing opinions. Contrary to popular belief, the nutritional benefits of breast milk do not abruptly end at the first birthday. Research shows that breastfeeding can continue to provide essential nutrients, bolster the immune system, and enhance emotional connection between the mother and child. The World Health Organization encourages breastfeeding up to two years or beyond, emphasizing its role in nurturing a child's health and development. Many mothers find that breastfeeding serves not only as nourishment but also as a comfort mechanism, helping children cope with stress or illness. In addition, extended nursing supports mental well-being for both mother and child, facilitating bonding and attachment. In a society where opinions about parenting choices abound, it's essential for mothers to follow their instincts and make decisions based on their family's needs. Creating a supportive community, whether online or among friends, can provide reassurance and guidance during this journey. Sharing experiences can also help dispel myths surrounding extended breastfeeding, such as concerns about societal stigma or developmental impacts on their child. Ultimately, the choice to continue breastfeeding is a deeply personal one. It involves balancing public perception and personal values. For those who resonate with this parenting practice, embracing the experience can lead to strengthening maternal bonds and promoting healthy child development.
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