He hides money from me 💰
We’ve been married for a little over a year, together for 10. We both work full-time and have separate bank accounts, but we do share one for rent and bills. I contribute more since I earn more.
Lately, I’ve been trying to get us on the same page financially especially since we’re planning to buy a house and start a family soon. But every time I ask about his spending or his savings, he completely shuts down. He refuses to show me his bank details or even look up his retirement account balance.
It’s not about control I just want transparency and to plan our future together. But he says I’m “invading his privacy.” It’s honestly made me question whether I can stay in a marriage where I’m financially in the dark.
Would you stay with a partner who refuses to share financial details after marriage?
See more comments