Referred for ADH & got told it’s not mental health

I was referred to a psych office by my primary doctor for ADHD treatment, but when I called, the receptionist said, “We don’t treat ADHD. ADHD is not a mental health condition.”

I tried explaining that I also have depression and could use therapy for that, but they’d only see me if the referral was specifically for depression.

I get that some people might argue about semantics, but ADHD is in the DSM-V and often comes with comorbid mental health conditions. It felt dismissive and bizarre. Honestly, I think this has more to do with the fact that ADHD meds are controlled substances than anything else.

Has anyone else had experiences with mental health providers acting like ADHD isn’t a “real” condition?

#asklemon8 #cozychat

2025/12/20 Edited to

... Read moreAttention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is often misunderstood, even among healthcare providers. Despite being classified in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V), some professionals still question whether it should be treated as a mental health condition. This misunderstanding can create barriers for individuals seeking appropriate care. ADHD frequently coexists with other mental health issues such as depression and anxiety, which reinforces its status as a neurodevelopmental disorder with psychological impact. The confusion some clinicians have may stem from ADHD’s management involving controlled substances like stimulant medications, which require careful regulation. It is important to recognize that ADHD affects brain function impacting attention, impulse control, and executive functioning, leading to challenges in daily life and emotional regulation. Effective treatment often combines medication, behavioral therapy, and support strategies. Patients sometimes experience dismissal or delays in treatment when providers refuse to acknowledge ADHD’s legitimacy as a mental health condition. Advocacy and education are critical in addressing stigma and improving access to comprehensive care. If you face barriers obtaining diagnosis or treatment, consider seeking a second opinion or consulting specialists such as psychiatrists who are experienced in ADHD. Additionally, understanding your rights and resources available through mental health organizations can empower you to advocate for the care you need. In summary, ADHD is a recognized mental health disorder with established diagnostic criteria and treatment protocols. Raising awareness about its nature, comorbidities, and treatment challenges is key to supporting those affected and improving healthcare provider understanding.

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Try Lifestance. I work for them and they have offices all over the US. I’m a LPC and I see patients with. ADHD. We take almost any insurance. Don’t give up.

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ADHD is a mental health condition 😭 it affects my life severely I have the ADD which is now adhd but I loose things I have really bad track of time and it really affects my severe MDD and severe GAD it just makes it worse and I can’t enjoy life

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