Insecure
Got a lot on my mind
I'm thinking I'm needing a break to clear up the clutter, damn man
Can I get a minute, get some space, man
You been through my head, playing games, man
You be way too controlling
Got me feeling like I can't breathe, I can't even hang with a homie
Ain't no reason not to trust me, I'm your lady, not a slave
You my nigga, not my master, I'll escape thinking who can I run to?
Got me looking for a new dude
With a chill vibe, who a nice time
Who can lay back, who don't pick fights, who ain't insecure
Why you gotta be so insecure?
When I did all I could do, but you be wanting more
And why you can't get above my back?
And I can take a lot of shit, but I won't take that
Been a long time, ain't been home, I been away
Work got me in and out of state
Don't know what you're doing, wonder what you're doing
You got niggas in your face, I'll never let you go to waste
You're my treasure, baby, not my trash
Thirsty 'bout to make a nigga splash
Why I treat you like a trophy, control freak
I tell you that's better than no freak
Find someone better you can go free
Stop trippin', girl, you know me, I'm your homie
Don't cut it off
We done said it all and we done it all
I want it all, for myself sorry if I'm coming off insecure
Oh, yeah, yeah
Why you gotta be so insecure? Yeah
When I did all I could do, but you be wanting more
And why you can't get above my back?
And I can take a lot of shit, but I won't take that
Don't you know that trust is important?
Ever heard of that, is it foreign to you?
Is a good time really boring to you?
You be on your Suge Knight, always trying to fight
You a bully or a lover?
Are you my man or my big brother?
Baby somethin' wrong with this picture
You make it hard to wanna stay with ya
I'm your lady, not a slave
You my nigga, not my master, I'll escape
Thinking who can I run to?
Got me looking for a new dude
I'm a good girl but you reachin'
'Bout to make me give you reason to be insecure
Why you gotta be so insecure? (So insecure)
When I did all I could do but you be wanting more
(But you be wanting more and more and more and more and more and more and more)
And why you can't get above my back?
And I can take a lot of shit, but I won't take that (but I won't take that)
No, I won't take that no more
Insecurity can profoundly impact relationships, often leading to misunderstandings and emotional turmoil. It is essential to recognize that insecurity stems from a variety of factors, including past experiences and personal doubts. One effective approach to overcoming insecurity is fostering open and honest communication with your partner. Discuss your feelings instead of letting them fester. Additionally, focus on building your self-esteem—participate in activities that make you feel good about yourself and reinforce your value as an individual. Practicing self-care is crucial; it helps you feel grounded and less reliant on external validation. Sometimes, seeking professional help can offer deeper insights into the root causes of your insecurities and equip you with tools to manage them effectively. Remember, every relationship requires patience and understanding. As you work through feelings of insecurity, aim for a balance where both partners feel supported and valued. Ultimately, investing time in personal growth and mutual trust can pave the way for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
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