do doctors even listen anymore?

I felt so discouraged. I wasn’t even asking for a permanent med change, just a chance to try something that actually fit my thyroid stats. But my doctor wouldn’t even consider it.

She didn’t ask follow-up questions, didn’t want to hear what I’d researched, didn’t want to discuss. Just: “No. There’s not enough research.”

Meanwhile, that med has helped so many people with my same condition. Why gate keep it? It’s frustrating when doctors act like your lived experience means nothing.

💬Share below: Has this ever happened to you?

#lemon8partner #girlpov #thyroidhealth #medicalgaslighting #chronicillness

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To be far from a video what I saw of a parent who trying to get her kid an annual check up and was told to give antibiotics to the kid who doesn’t really need it . The doctors are pawns to hospitals sound like. Maybe not all but they have policies and standards like rest of us. Hospitals are one of top money greedy thing for government m

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