my son passed away at 4 days old when I was 17 years old ..and when I had my c section I had a seizure and stop breathing they had to get me breathing again ..by doing the sternum rub to get me breathing again I told someone I died and they said you didn't die or you would not be here ..really you were not there and yes I did they got me breathing again people are stupid..

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... Read moreLosing a child is one of the most devastating experiences anyone can face, especially at such a young age. I remember going through this heartache and at the same time enduring a medical emergency during my C-section that nearly took my life. When someone experiences a seizure and stops breathing in the operating room, every second counts. The medical team often uses a sternum rub — a method where they firmly rub the breastbone to stimulate the patient and try to restart breathing. This intervention saved me when I stopped breathing momentarily. Many people don’t understand what it feels like to be so close to death and then to come back. When I shared my experience of “dying,” some said I hadn’t really died because I’m here now. But medically, there’s a condition called clinical death, where breathing and heartbeat stop temporarily but can be reversed with quick action. That’s what happened to me. The feeling of being in that state is something difficult to explain—it's like being on the edge of two worlds. It is important to remember that even young mothers facing trauma and loss require understanding and respect. Also, from a health perspective, women who have seizures during childbirth or C-sections need comprehensive care to ensure both their safety and recovery. Emotional support and counseling can be crucial to help cope with the grief and trauma. Sharing stories like this can raise awareness of how fragile life is and how medical interventions like the sternum rub can save lives in critical moments. For those who have faced similar losses or medical emergencies, connecting with support groups helps you realize you’re not alone. Life after such an event is not easy, but with time and care, healing is possible.

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