Un dÃa lloré.
Lloré tanto que sentÃa que me rompÃa por dentro, porque me creà insuficiente para alguien que, estando a mi lado, buscaba a otras personas como si yo no valiera nada, como si mi presencia fuera reemplazable.
Me cuestioné todo:
¿Será que no soy tan bonita?
¿Será que a mi cuerpo le falta algo?
¿Será que no me esforcé lo suficiente, que no di todo de m�
Pero con el tiempo lo entendÃ.
A mà no me faltó nada.
Hoy, cuando me miro al espejo, me veo más guapa, más completa, más enamorada de mÃ. Descubrà que no necesito a nadie para sentirme feliz, que nunca me faltaron mejores piernas, ni mejor cadera, ni sonrisas falsas para agradar.
El problema nunca fui yo.
El problema fue estar donde no era mi lugar, al lado de alguien que no sabÃa lo que querÃa, alguien para quien nada es suficiente porque ni siquiera se basta a sà mismo.
Hoy sé que la vida no me quitó nada: me regaló la salida. Me movió de un sitio donde mi alma no florecÃa, me apartó de un amor que no era mÃo, y me enseñó que cuando algo se va, es porque el tiempo, el lugar y la persona simplemente no eran para ti.
Y en ese aprendizaje encontré lo más valioso: yo misma.
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