Una vez amé demasiado
Me entregué por completo tratando de dar lo mejor de mà en la relación, pero al parecer la otra persona no tenÃa las mismas ideas que yo sobre estar en pareja. Al principio todo era genial, pero era ilusión, después la ilusión se rompió. Luché por esto porque de verdad me encantaba estar con esa persona y todo lo que me hacÃa sentir, pero conforme pasaba el tiempo todo se iba desgastando, lo que era amor se iba convirtiendo desprecio.
SentÃa que yo ponÃa más en la relación, más tiempo, más cariño, más interés, y al ver que del otro lado no era lo mismo me fui decepcionando. No se me hacÃa justo mendigar por un poco de atención, porque si mendigas algo solo te darán las sobras.
De joven te puedes dar ese lujo de aguantar y aguantar, pero llegas a una edad madura en donde deseas algo estable, un lugar cálido para descansar y donde todo sea recÃproco.
Por mucho que ames a alguien si no se le notan las ganas de estar contigo, todo muere.
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