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✨Theory has a good boyfriend - we are good at it.✅

Get a good girlfriend = life changes

Keng here doesn't mean to show off, but would like to convey that you will find a girlfriend while not grabbing a loser because no one has been good since birth. We and my girlfriend are both from the beginning.

The beginning ♫ - Get a good girlfriend (watch often)

At first, we might just admire him, be good at work, be good at learning, or be good at living, or some people might get a good girlfriend from the beginning, but when we live with it, it seems like there is some power that makes us not want to stop at the same place, want to try, want to do, want to improve ourselves a step further. 🚀

✨ from love → inspiration.

Of course, when having a good girlfriend, we secretly have a sense of comparison in our hearts, but not to put pressure on ourselves.

It turns out... it's the inspiration that makes us want to be better like him, like Phil, "We don't want to be shadows, but we want to stand next to pride." 💡

🎐 unconsciously absorbed learning.

Being together every day is like learning directly and indirectly. Sometimes he may teach new techniques, ways of thinking, or life management, 📝 but sometimes it is "absorbing" unconsciously. Seeing a girlfriend disciplined. Seeing a girlfriend intentionally solve the last problem, we accidentally apply them to our own lives.

🎐 more action because of the push.

Inspired + learned, what happens is... we really do it, we dare to try things that have never been tried, we dare to do things that are afraid, and continue to develop ourselves like there is a "push" behind ✨

Until we see ourselves change in ways that we never thought we could do before 💕

🎐 grow together.

This kind of relationship is special in that we don't just love each other, we "grow up together," we develop ourselves, they develop themselves into a couple that supports each other in every way, whether it's work, school or everyday life. 💕

In the end, the best love may not be just having someone to love.

But is to have someone who always makes us want to be "a better version of ourselves."

# Post a day # Ask to answer # Self-improvement tips # Love, relationships # Financial work

2025/9/29 Edited to

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