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Women often don’t know how to treat men because they were never taught. From day one, boys are trained with a specific code: be a gentleman, open the door, protect her, provide for her, and be understanding. We are told that even if she hits you, you never hit back. This message is everywhere—in movies, books, and fairy tales. The man rescues the woman; the man saves the day; the man risks his life. The man carries the burden while the woman is the princess.
The problem is that the reverse side was never written. Women never saw stories about how to treat a man. There are no novels teaching girls how to respect a man’s spirit, and no movies demonstrating the power of femininity, loyalty, or devotion. Parents didn't teach it, schools didn't teach it, and society certainly doesn't value it.
As a result, we have generations of women who expect everything but are never taught to give anything back through their femininity. Modern movements made this worse; instead of teaching women how to understand men or create polarity, they taught women to compete with men. They were taught to see softness as weakness and masculinity as toxic.
How can a woman treat a man well if she was never shown what feminine contribution looks like? How can she respect him when the only message she grew up with was that "men are the problem"? How can she love him correctly when she was taught that he owes her everything, while she owes nothing in return?
Men today are paying the price for a script they didn’t write. They were raised to give everything, while women were not raised to reciprocate.
The only way to fix this is by teaching the truth: Polarity is freedom. Synergy is power. Relationships only work when both individuals know how to love and live in their respective masculine and feminine energies. Until women learn to lead with respect, softness, and admiration, the imbalance will continue.
Andre The Beast Crayton
In today’s society, the dynamics of male and female roles in relationships can often feel confusing or unbalanced due to the mixed messages each gender receives from an early age. While boys are commonly taught to embody traditional masculine traits such as protectiveness, provision, and chivalry, girls frequently grow up without a clear roadmap on how to express their femininity in a way that nurtures and respects their male partners. This imbalance can lead to misunderstandings and frustration on both sides. For women, not being shown how to honor a man's spirit and contributions often results in unmet expectations and a lack of reciprocal love. For men, continually giving without feeling appreciated or respected can create emotional disconnect or discouragement. The key to resolving these tensions lies in understanding the concept of polarity—the natural dynamic between masculine and feminine energies. Polarity does not mean competition or oppression; it represents complementary forces that, when balanced, create powerful synergy. Women leading with softness, respect, and admiration can inspire men to feel valued and motivated, which enhances intimacy and mutual growth. Recognizing feminine contribution means appreciating qualities such as emotional support, loyalty, grace, and nurturing leadership within the relationship. These aspects do not reflect weakness but rather a form of strength that fosters harmony and depth. Modern cultural shifts have sometimes portrayed masculinity and femininity in adversarial terms, labeling masculinity as toxic and encouraging women to compete rather than collaborate with men. However, restoring balance involves transcending these narratives and returning to a mutual understanding of each gender’s unique and vital role. By encouraging women to embrace their feminine power and teaching both genders to honor one another’s differences, relationships can transform into partnerships where both individuals thrive. This approach promotes freedom for each person to express their true nature and cultivates a loving environment where respect and reciprocity flourish.
