Grow up to understand... to choose someone who is equal or high!

At a young age, we were often taken away by feelings.

Seeing anyone cute falls in love

Seeing anyone talking well is trembling.

Maybe just people doing better than they've ever met, we think, "Yes."

At that time, we never thought that

The basis of his life, thoughts, habits and "precepts."

More important than sweet words

But when you grow up...

Has gone through both very sweet love and very tired love.

To understand a fact that -

People whose precepts are not equal, even if they love so much, can make each other tired every day.

Tired of trying to understand

Tired of forgiving the same thing.

Tired of some habits we can't take for granted.

Tired of the idea of a path park until there is no middle point.

It's not who's wrong or who's bad.

But we have the same basic life in the first place.

We walked up the hill.

But he walked down

In the end, it's getting further and further.

When found like this many times

That's why I started to understand the word

"Choose someone who is equal or higher than us."

People who are always canon.

Won't make us teach him the basic things.

Don't repeat, don't push.

Don't be afraid he'll hurt his heart with small things.

He understands the same way.

And live at a pace that fits us.

As for those who are higher than us

He'll be like a silent inspiration.

Don't force it. Don't talk a lot.

But makes us want to improve ourselves

Want to grow up. Want to be better.

He took us where there was more light.

Without making us feel inferior or depressed.

Grow up knowing that good love

Not measured by excitement.

But from long-term comfort,

Not measured by beautiful promises

But from actions that don't hurt each other.

Nor is it measured by unilateral efforts.

But from growing together firmly,

So if you meet someone close to each other now,

Or someone whose precepts are higher until making her a better person.

Don't let go.

People like this are not easy to find.

Because in the end...

We should all love without pressure and without being tired of the basics of the other person's life.

And that's the love to choose. 🌿💛

# Personal preference # The right person # Canon always see you