... Read moreIt feels like just yesterday I was holding a tiny baby, and now my incredible son, Nick Wilkins, is officially 20 years old! Time truly flies when you're watching your children grow into amazing young adults. We decided to make his 20th birthday extra special this year with a family trip, and what better place than the beautiful, clear blue ocean waters of the Dominican Republic? Celebrating such a significant milestone called for something truly memorable.
Seeing our family of four – my husband, our baby in a life vest, Nick, and I – all together on that beach, with the vibrant Dominican Republic flag fluttering proudly in the breeze, was a moment I’ll cherish forever. For me, celebrating Nick's milestone wasn't just about the 'more fun' we had splashing in the waves and exploring new sights, but also about reflecting on the 'more responsibility' that inevitably comes with turning 20. It’s a significant step into true adulthood, moving past the teenage years, and we’re so incredibly proud of the thoughtful, ambitious young man he’s becoming.
I remember when he was just a little boy, full of boundless energy and insatiable curiosity. Now, he's navigating college life, making big decisions about his future career, and finding his unique path in the world. This trip was a wonderful opportunity to pause from the everyday hustle, celebrate his journey so far, and look forward with excitement to all the chapters ahead. We spent our days soaking up the warm Caribbean sun, swimming in the refreshing sea, and simply enjoying each other's company without any distractions. There were so many laughs shared over family dinners, some heartfelt conversations about his dreams and aspirations, and, of course, plenty of delicious local food that added to the celebratory atmosphere. It’s moments like these that truly bind our family together, creating memories that will last a lifetime.
Watching him interact with his younger sibling, showing such patience, kindness, and love, reinforces just how much he's matured over the past two decades. We talked about his immediate dreams for the year ahead, his long-term goals, and how he plans to embrace both the challenges and opportunities that come with being 20. It's a privilege to witness his continued growth, to offer guidance when needed, and to be there to support him every single step of the way. This birthday wasn't just about a number; it was a profound celebration of resilience, the strength of our family's love, and the incredible bond we share. Here's to many more years of joy, adventure, and success for our wonderful Nick as he steps boldly into his twenties!