AIO fiance can‘t arrange the wedding he promised?

"I’m feeling so stressed and stuck right now 😩 My fiancé and I have been planning our wedding for over a year. When we got engaged, he promised me a beautiful celebration — something we both dreamed about. Lately, though, it’s become clear he can’t get his act together. He keeps postponing decisions, missing deadlines, and now his parents are frustrated with him and have cut him off financially.

I get that weddings are stressful and that no one is perfect at planning, but I can’t help feeling let down. I imagined us working together to create something meaningful, not constantly scrambling because he can’t follow through. I want to support him, but I also feel like I’m carrying most of the burden.

Is it unreasonable to feel upset and worried that the wedding we envisioned might never happen the way we planned? 💔👰🤵

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2025/10/24 Edited to

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Isabella🤍✝️♾️

You’re not being unreasonable at all. It’s stressful when one person ends up doing most of the planning. Weddings are supposed to be teamwork, and feeling unsupported is completely valid—especially when it’s something you both dreamed of.

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