To the irl Lilly blooms of the world!! I was you!!
Find your way sister 🥹I did it through prayers and the strength 💪he gave me pushed me to lose weight which gave me confidence and I took that and ran with it! 💯Whatever it is you have to do it may not be a man it may be school it may be family it may just be a friend or a organization
Vulnerability
🤍 My Story:my x met me when I was 18 he was 28 he lied to be about his age for the first 6 months after we had already moved in together.. I think he saw me as very vulnerable I had a daughter I was going to school full time and I was dancing on weekends. He cheated on me saying he assumed I was since I was a dancer so that made it ok but since I didn’t want this I started finding girls for us to have 3ways in hopes he wouldn’t cheat without me he still did! So I married him thinking he couldn’t do that to his wife… he did but that wasn’t the worst part He constantly told me how he wanted a baby so I got pregnant and when I had that baby he became very mean even during the pregnancy I remember him threatening me telling me he was gonna leave me if I didn’t find him another girl!! While I was pregnant… He told me I was never gonna have another man like him and no one else would want to deal with me or the fact I have multiple children because at that point we had our last child together 3 kids total for me 2 from him and the last child of mine was born with a broken heart she had to have heart surgery at 1 and he was on his phone talking to girls while I was holding my baby hooked up to a million machines by the age of 2 her dad and I where separated the x husband from hell is still legally married to me but it’s been 3 years of separation and I still thank God every chance I get!! Moral of the story pick a good man so u never have to go threw this I should have known the red flags where there lady’s if he’s living on a couch let him Save your self not a grown man that was my mistake!!
🤍 How I Felt:betrayed I didn’t want to believe that he was this terrible person that he truly was and is.
🤍 My Takeaways:but there is… #hope #life #rainbow #believe #believeinyourself #nevertolate #tolearn #youcandoit #proverbs31woman #godlyhusband
the good man does exist my new man has never raised a hand and has barely even argued with me and I am very argumentative because I was in the first relationship for 9 years I got use to toxic behaviors but it’s been 2.5 years now and I can honestly say that this man shown above is fixing my heart one day at a time!!😭❤️🫣
In today's world, many women face challenges in their relationships, often grappling with feelings of betrayal and vulnerability. The importance of recognizing red flags in a partner is vital in safeguarding one's emotional well-being. This story highlights significant themes of self-worth and finding strength through adversity. Many women are unaware that a partner’s negative behaviors can deeply impact their self-esteem and overall happiness. Understanding the dynamics of healthy relationships begins with self-awareness and setting personal boundaries. Individuals must learn to identify signs of manipulation, such as emotional withholding or gaslighting, which can lead to toxic situations like those described in this article. Support systems, whether through friendships, family, or professional guidance, can play a crucial role in helping one reclaim their power. Overall, the power of prayer, community support, and ultimately believing in oneself can lead to transformative outcomes. Embracing one's vulnerability can be the first step towards healing and empowerment. The journey may be long, but with perseverance and faith, those who seek love and self-acceptance can find their way to a brighter future.