Mother daughter or sister sister 🤷🏽‍♀️

It's funny, the question of whether we're mother-daughter or sister-sister comes up all the time! Honestly, I get it. There's just a certain closeness, a vibe, that we share that makes people wonder. But to me, it's pure sisterhood, and it comes with its own beautiful set of 'sisterly duties' that I wouldn't trade for anything. What exactly are sisterly duties, you ask? Well, it’s not about chores or obligations in the traditional sense. For me, it’s about showing up, always. It’s being that unwavering support system, the first person you call when something amazing happens, or when the world feels like it’s crashing down. It's giving honest advice, even when it's tough to hear, because you know it comes from a place of love. And it’s definitely about sharing endless laughs over the silliest things! I look at our pictures, like that recent close-up selfie we took – both of us with our distinctive dreadlocks, posing closely, one of us with a nose piercing, just looking at the camera. It captures so much of our unspoken connection. It’s not just about looking alike; it’s about the comfort and understanding that passes between us without a single word. That indoor setting with light walls in the background, it’s often where we have our deepest talks, or just chill out, creating those peaceful feelings we cherish. My sisterly duties include being a confidante, a cheerleader, and sometimes, yes, a gentle critic. I remember one time, I was struggling with a big decision, and she just sat with me, listened without judgment, and then helped me break down the pros and cons. She didn’t tell me what to do, but her presence and thoughtful questions guided me to my own answer. That's a sisterly duty in action – empowering each other to be our best selves. Another big part of it? Celebrating each other's wins, big or small. Whether it's a new job, a personal goal achieved, or just a really good hair day for her beautiful dreadlocks, I'm there, cheering the loudest. And on the flip side, being there to pick up the pieces when things go wrong. Sisterhood means having a safe space to be vulnerable, to truly be yourself, piercings and all. It’s about holding each other accountable with compassion and helping each other grow, even when it means stepping out of our comfort zones. Sometimes, people might see a protective side in our bond, almost like a mother figure, but it's really rooted in that deep sisterly love. We look out for each other, you know? If one of us is feeling down, the other is quick to offer comfort, a pep talk, or just a comforting presence. It’s about fostering a harmonious atmosphere, a peaceful feeling between us, no matter what external stresses might be going on. These duties aren't burdens; they're privileges that strengthen our connection every single day. So, while the world might ponder if we're mother-daughter or sister-sister, for us, it's simply sisterhood. It's a unique bond woven with shared history, unwavering support, and a deep understanding that only sisters can truly have. It's about fulfilling those unspoken sisterly duties that make life richer, brighter, and infinitely more joyful. What do 'sisterly duties' mean to you in your relationships? I'd love to #letschat about it!