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People who are not good at anything, people who can't find their own identity.

I am a self-thinking person and see myself as not good at anything. I still do nothing fragmentary. I'm afraid that other people are afraid of doing bad, wanting to have a supplementary income, but I don't know where to draw from. Some things may be easy to do for others, but with us too difficult....🥀🥀 ask for advice from friends, please advise. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

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... Read moreหลายคนอาจเคยรู้สึกเหมือนกับที่เราเคยเป็น คือรู้สึกว่าตัวเองไม่เก่งอะไรเลย และไม่รู้ว่าจะเริ่มต้นทำอะไรดี เมื่อได้ลองคิดไตร่ตรองดูแล้ว เราพบว่าสิ่งสำคัญที่สุดคือการให้เวลากับตัวเอง และใจเย็นกับการเดินทางค้นหาตัวตนของเราเอง เริ่มแรกอยากแนะนำให้ตั้งเป้าหมายเล็กๆ ที่เราสามารถทำได้จริง เช่น ลองเรียนรู้ทักษะใหม่ๆ ที่เราอยากรู้ ผ่านช่องทางออนไลน์ฟรี หรือทดลองทำกิจกรรมที่สนใจโดยไม่กดดันตัวเองว่าต้องทำได้ดีทันที เพราะความสำเร็จเกิดขึ้นจากความพยายามและความอดทน ในส่วนของรายได้เสริม ลองมองหาสิ่งที่เราสนใจและเหมาะกับสภาพแวดล้อมรอบตัว เช่น ขายของออนไลน์ ทำงานฟรีแลนซ์ หรือรับงานเล็กๆ ที่ไม่ต้องใช้ทักษะซับซ้อน พยายามเริ่มจากจุดเล็กๆ ก่อน แล้วค่อยๆ พัฒนาขึ้นไป การทำซ้ำและเรียนรู้จากความผิดพลาดจะช่วยให้เราแข็งแกร่งขึ้นเรื่อยๆ อย่าลืมว่าการเปรียบเทียบตัวเองกับคนอื่นนั้นไม่จำเป็น เพราะแต่ละคนมีจังหวะและเส้นทางชีวิตที่ต่างกัน ความกลัวการเริ่มต้นคือสิ่งธรรมดาที่ใครก็ต้องเจอ เราควรมองเป็นบทเรียนและแรงผลักดันมากกว่าเป็นอุปสรรค สุดท้าย การมีเพื่อนหรือชุมชนที่คอยสนับสนุนและแบ่งปันประสบการณ์จะช่วยให้เราไม่รู้สึกโดดเดี่ยวในการเดินทางครั้งนี้ ไม่ว่าจะเป็นกลุ่มเรียนรู้ในโซเชียลมีเดีย หรือชมรมต่างๆ ที่เกี่ยวข้องกับความสนใจของเรา ลองเปิดใจรับฟัง และไม่หยุดที่จะพัฒนาตัวเองแล้ววันหนึ่งเราจะเจอจุดที่ใช่สำหรับตัวเองแน่นอน

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