To Date or Not to Date: Is True Love a Myth?
Dating: an ancient myth, designed to give us false hope, undeserved trust, and a false sense of sexual righteousness. This righteousness only comes through couples who truly understand the power of the two becoming one during a lifetime of marriage between two people who have not separated love and sex. Love and sex were never meant to be separated. However, because we have separated sex and love, true love is rarely seen and is becoming a myth. It is only spoken about by dreamers out of touch with reality, and some even view it as a side effect of mental and emotional instability.
Conclusively speaking, I just wanna fok, which is why most people date now. They have no intentions of becoming attached to another defected human. I’m not saying you alone are defected. I’m saying mankind is defected, downgraded its high end potential, because it has lost the ancient generational knowledge and power of the 2 becoming 1. Mankind has become so prideful and clueless that it is blind to the fact that 2 or better than 1. It no longer honors or promotes the concept of the 2 becoming 1 in marriage and life time partnership. Instead choosing to honor the short term satisfaction and false fulfillment of risky unprotected sex, exposing itself to an avalanche of mental, emotional, and physical damage and abuse, leaving them damaged, defected, and defensive. Some do eventually decide to get married. They think that it might be better to have someone who is not just using them or used by them. unfortunately they are blind to the damage done to them through dating and are no longer capable of true love. Maybe it’s be better to have someone that will be there to pick you up if you fall, someone to cook you chicken soup if you get sick, someone to snuggle with when you go to sleep, someone who will always be there when you wake up in they morning and most importantly, someone who has chosen that for the rest of their life, they will learn the best ways to love you.
In my experience, modern dating often feels more like a transaction than a meaningful connection. Many people I know prioritize short-term satisfaction over building a deep bond, mirroring the perspective shared in the article about lost ancient values. This has led me to question whether true love, as a lifelong commitment where two become one, is still attainable in today’s world. When I reflect on relationships in my own life and those of people around me, there’s a clear trend of detachment and fear of vulnerability. It seems that many settle for less than true partnership, accepting casual encounters without seeking the profound emotional fusion described in the concept of “two becoming one.” However, I believe that love and sex were meant to coexist harmoniously, and when they do, they create a powerful bond that supports growth and healing. While dating apps and hookup culture highlight instant gratification, there are still those who pursue meaningful relationships—partners who support each other through life’s challenges, as the article suggests with examples like cooking chicken soup or providing emotional care. Learning how to love deeply takes intentional effort and a willingness to be imperfect yet open with someone else. Despite the damage modern dating might inflict, it’s possible to reclaim the true essence of love by seeking partners who value commitment and emotional intimacy over fleeting pleasure. True love may seem rare today, but it isn’t entirely a myth; it just requires us to look beyond surface-level encounters and embrace vulnerability and shared growth.