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Because you are happiness...

True to what people used to say...

"Stay in the right place, be in the right place, be in the right place, be in the right place."

Is a life skill that is not taught in school.

But we have learned from being dumped, exploited.

Or made to feel worthless where it shouldn't be.

We used to try too well with people who didn't appreciate it.

Used to endure some things for too long that my heart felt

Used to be in a place where it took to pretend to be someone else to be accepted.

Although in my heart I just want to be myself in peace

As time passed, we gradually understood that

Self-love is not just encouraging yourself on a tired day.

But is to choose to be in a space that does not hurt the heart.

Choose to give goodness to the person who takes it.

Gentle and selective.

Something that only means to our future.

Because in the end, the happiness of life

Not from trying to survive in the same place.

But from daring to step out.

And choosing to stand in a slightly lighter place is still good

What makes our hearts calm?

That's it! That's our place.

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Article credit: "Think a lot" page

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2025/8/23 Edited to

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