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Love yourself while loving you..

Nobody's perfect.

We both have wounds.

That varies.

Some wounds are comfortable to tell.

Some wounds are convenient to keep.

So we can't judge anyone.

Just because of what was only briefly seen.

Or from stories from others.

Very good. She can pass.

Embrace that story.

Accept and give yourself a chance.

Have some happiness

2025/10/23 Edited to

... Read moreการรักตัวเองไม่ใช่แค่การมองเห็นด้านดีของตนเองเท่านั้น แต่ยังรวมถึงการยอมรับบาดแผลและข้อจำกัดที่เราแต่ละคนมีอยู่ รู้จักให้อภัยตัวเองในความผิดพลาดหรือเรื่องราวที่ผ่านมาเป็นก้าวแรกของการเติบโตทางอารมณ์และจิตใจ หลายคนมองว่าการเปิดใจรับความรักจากผู้อื่นเป็นเรื่องยุ่งยาก เพราะกลัวว่าจะถูกตัดสินหรือไม่เข้าใจ แต่ความจริงแล้ว ความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีต้องเริ่มจากการรักและเคารพตัวเองก่อน เมื่อเรากลายเป็นคนที่พร้อมจะรักตัวเอง เราก็สามารถรักษาความสัมพันธ์กับคนรอบข้างอย่างมีความเข้าใจและเห็นอกเห็นใจมากขึ้น การดูแลตัวเองอย่างมีสติ ยังช่วยให้เราสามารถแยกแยะระหว่างความคิดเห็นของผู้อื่นกับความเป็นจริงเกี่ยวกับตัวเราเองได้ดีขึ้น โดยไม่ยึดติดกับคำตัดสินหรือการวิจารณ์ในเชิงลบมากเกินไป ยิ่งไปกว่านั้น การแสดงความรู้สึกและการสื่อสารอย่างเปิดเผยและจริงใจในความสัมพันธ์ จะเปิดโอกาสให้เกิดความเข้าใจลึกซึ้งและความไว้วางใจซึ่งกันและกัน ทำให้ความรักที่มีต่อกันเติบโตและมั่นคงมากขึ้น ในทุกช่วงเวลาที่เราต้องเผชิญกับความยากลำบาก หรือบาดแผลภายในใจ อย่าลืมว่านั่นเป็นส่วนหนึ่งของเส้นทางที่ทำให้เราเข้มแข็งและเข้าใจตัวเองมากขึ้น ให้โอกาสกับตัวเองได้มีความสุขและเติบโต พร้อมๆ กับการรักคนที่คุณรักอย่างแท้จริง

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