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Thank you for saying I love you because you are like this.

Don't be too kind... because the world isn't always gentle with people who give too much.

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Sometimes the "kindness" you give sincerely.

It can become a "gap" for some people to take advantage of without feeling guilty.

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Don't let anyone turn your kindness into a regret.

Because of a good relationship.

It's not about "submission," it's about "presumptuousness." 🌷✨

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# Relationship # Kindness # Take at ease

2025/11/2 Edited to

... Read moreเคยไหมที่คุณรู้สึกเสียใจเพราะใจดีให้คนอื่นไปมากเกินจนถูกเอาเปรียบ? ฉันเองก็เคยในวันที่ให้ทุกอย่างไปโดยไม่รู้ขอบเขต สุดท้ายกลับโดนมองข้ามและไม่ได้รับความเกรงใจที่ควรจะเป็น จากประสบการณ์นี้ ฉันได้เรียนรู้ว่าความใจดีควรมาพร้อมกับการรู้จักปกป้องตัวเอง ไม่ใช่ใจดีจนลืมตัว พยายามรักษาขอบเขตของความสัมพันธ์ เพื่อไม่ให้คนอื่นคิดว่าเราง่ายหรือด้อยค่า คำพูดที่เห็นในภาพ "อย่าใจดีเกินไป เพราะคุณจะได้ ความไม่เกรงใจ กลบมา" มันโดนใจและเป็นคำเตือนที่ดีมากสำหรับใครที่ชอบให้หรือช่วยเหลือคนอื่นโดยไม่ระวังตัวเอง หากอยากรักษาความสัมพันธ์ให้นานและดี ควรสร้างความเกรงใจกันมากกว่าการยอมโดยไม่ตั้งใจ การใจดีที่แท้จริงคือการให้ที่มีขอบเขตและทำให้ทั้งสองฝ่ายรู้สึกสบายใจ ท้ายที่สุดแล้ว การรู้จักให้ แต่ไม่ทิ้งตัวเอง จะช่วยให้เรามีความสุขและได้รับความเคารพในแบบที่เราควรได้รับอย่างแท้จริง

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