Any memorable lessons from mom or dad

My mom once told me to pick and choose my battles and it stuck with me because I used to want to go back and forth with ANYBODY about ANYTHING but now I realize that something isn’t with entertaining. What about you? Did your parents ever told u anything that stuck in the back of your head? #letschat #lemon8contest

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... Read moreMany people cherish the lessons learned from their parents, as these nuggets of wisdom often guide us through life's challenges. A common saying like, "pick your battles" resonates with many, encouraging us to focus on what truly matters rather than engaging in fruitless arguments. Parents share varying philosophies, from valuing kindness and integrity to encouraging independence and resilience. Whether it's a reminder to stay true to oneself, a lesson about empathy, or the importance of hard work, these lessons create a lasting impact. Interactions with parents can shape our decisions and approach towards life. Reflecting on such conversations can even deepen family bonds, fostering discussions that lead to mutual understanding. Share your thoughts and let's engage in a heartfelt exchange about the enduring wisdom from our parents that guides us today.

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my mom would always say everybody is not your friend. I had to learn this the hard way cause I did not listen at first

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i stopped depending on my parents after theg told me i disappointed them. ik i did. and i was ashamed of what i did but to them i looked like i did it without shame but i was. i also hated when they said to tell them anything that bothers me. but when i do, i get gaslit and lectured instead of feeling heard

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