Signs 🦋

Being in a relationship should feel like a team effort, not like you're pulling all the weight. If you're always the one doing the most making plans and hoping for stuff that never comes, it's probably time to rethink things.

Love's about give and take, not chasing someone around.

I remember once in a past relationship, I was the one planning all the dates getting little gifts remembering all the important stuff.

One day I just stopped texting to see if he a reach out. Three days went by. Three. And when he finally messaged me, it was to ask if I could help him with something for his job.

That's when I knew. Never again🦋

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2024/10/28 Edited to

... Read moreBeing in a relationship should feel reciprocal. If you're always the one initiating communication or planning dates, it's a sign that the relationship may not be balanced. Many people experience the frustration of being left on read or feeling unimportant, which can lead to a build-up of disappointment. It's important to note whether your partner remembers significant dates or makes an effort to reciprocate your gestures. Common signs of an unbalanced relationship include consistent one-sided conversations, where you do all the talking, while your partner provides minimal engagement. The sense of waiting for them to reach out or acknowledge important events can lead to feelings of neglect. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual effort, and when that is lacking, it may be time for reflection. Recognize the signs and consider seeking relationship advice if you find yourself feeling unfulfilled. It's essential to advocate for your needs and ensure that love is genuinely a two-way street.

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Yeah, that’s what I was going through with my ex, a one sided relationship, I did everything that I could, but it wasn’t enough for her, she would leave me on read, she would change the subject, she never wanted to talk about what she was doing to me, but talk about what she wanted to talk about, and i never thought about leaving her but she said she wanted to break up, it hurt because I gave her everything, and she repaid me with a slap on the face, also after almost 20 years someone finally liked me, we knew each other for a year before courted for four and half months,

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