As a mom, I’ve often found myself repeating the same advice to my kids and wondering why it never quite sticks. From telling them to eat well to reminding them about daily responsibilities, the advice often seems to fly over their heads. This experience is something many parents can relate to, especially those navigating the tricky teenage years. One thing I’ve learned is that kids might not take advice not because they don’t respect us but because they need to experience things on their own to learn. Sometimes, simply telling them what to do leads to resistance rather than cooperation. I've noticed that when I share stories from my own life or explain why a piece of advice matters, they’re more likely to listen and engage. Another useful approach is to turn advice into questions or discussions, fostering a two-way conversation rather than a lecture. This subtle shift helps kids feel heard and respected, increasing the chances that the advice will resonate. Also, the way advice is delivered can make a big difference. Using positive language and showing empathy can encourage kids to open up and consider what we say. For example, sharing how healthy eating impacts energy and mood rather than just insisting on 'eat your veggies' has helped in my household. From my experience, patience and consistency are key. Kids might not respond immediately, but over time, they tend to come back to the guidance they've received, especially when it’s communicated with love and understanding. This journey of giving advice is part of the #momlife that many of us live every day and find humor and strength in through communities like #momsoftiktok and #momandson hashtags.